I'm a bridesmaid for my friend's wedding in January and just found out that she has serious bachelorette party doubts. She's very conservative and Christian (her father is a baptist minister), so her doubts aren't entirely unexpected. However, she says she disliked the bachelorette party I planned for our mutual friend a year ago -- which featured a toilet paper lingerie contest, pin the "lips" on the "hot guy" cutout, honeymoon advice, and lingerie presents. I thought that bach party was pretty PG-rated, but my friend says it made her feel uncomfortable. She's even mentioned not having a bachelorette party at all!
So I guess I have a few questions: Should I respect her wishes and cancel the bachelorette party altogether? Or should I try to find a compromise?
I feel like she deserves a bachelorette party, since she's getting married immediately after graduating and this would be a kind of "last hurrah" for her--and this is likely the only time she will ever get married. But at the same time, I don't want her unhappy with the party--Or with me!!
That being said: Does anyone have any ideas for a conservative bachelorette party that doesn't make you feel like you're at a five-year old's birthday party?