I used to work as an afterschool teacher and the ladies I work with would always talk about being invited to our wedding and how they want to come. I really wanted to ask them to babysit during the ceremony and reception (at those locations) for the young children (our wedding party's children) that will be there. Is that rude? I trust them since I know they have worked with kids so long. How would I go about doing this? We are sending save the dates this week and I wanted to ask them to babysit before they received a STD or invitation...