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Re: Evening! (early again, I know)

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_evening-early-again-i-know?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:426f4d01-fa41-48d3-99c5-ffd0bb3a037bPost:37559ef4-e544-4a1c-a45c-fb1c5167e2f8">Re: Evening! (early again, I know)</a>:
    [QUOTE]Sometimes I feel like I can't be honest on TK because people will think I'm doing it JUST to be oppositional.  I hold opposite opinions of many things that are discussed.  (I'm not trying to vagueknot, I've given my honest opinion about everything since I bounced into this thread, I'm just saying in general.  I can't go to UO or I Judge threads anymore because I disagree with SO MUCH that's said in them, and I started to seriously judge people for their opinions, and that made me sad.)
    Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

    Yeah, I feel like this sometimes too. Sometimes I just don't have the energy to debate. Espeically since it is highly unlikely that anyone here will actually change anyones mind.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re:Evening! early again, I know: I'm rather wined up, so this might just make me do it. Oh god, you guys are fabulous influences!
    Posted by Nickivegan[/QUOTE]

    Uh, this might sound a little forward, but can I get a FB invite if you're going to do this?

    EDITED because I don't know why the hell I typed 'fwd' instead of forward.
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  • JK, be oppositional. I sure have a lot of UnPop Op, and still plenty of TK friends.I have a hard time keeping some opinions to myself, especially a lot of feminist issues, as one may have noticed already.
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  • Nicki!

    I'm excited you're here. That is all.
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  • I know we're not supposed to mention FB on TK because its taboo, but since becoming friends with like 30 TK people, it has changed the way I view people, for better or worse. And yes, that is vagueknotting but I don't want to get REAMED for talking about people's FB on TK. Its just something that has been bothering me. 
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Evening! (early again, I know) : Because the freaks come out at night.  (The freaks come out at niiiiight.)
    Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]

    <div>Touché</div>
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_evening-early-again-i-know?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:426f4d01-fa41-48d3-99c5-ffd0bb3a037bPost:7605d5da-5aad-418f-ac52-3a71bf27d5fd">Re: Evening! (early again, I know)</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Evening! (early again, I know) : Haha, no, I can definitely be oppositional.  You've probably never seen me get up on my death penalty, prisoner/criminal rights, or sex offender soap boxes.  I've got very, very unpopular opinions there.
    Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

    Yeah, but see now I WANT to because it makes for interesting discussion.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Evening! (early again, I know) : Haha, no, I can definitely be oppositional.  You've probably never seen me get up on my death penalty, prisoner/criminal rights, or sex offender soap boxes.  I've got very, very unpopular opinions there.
    Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]
    I think I have seen you on your soapbox, and if I recall your position correctly I think I mostly agree with you.
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  • Even though I know the seal is in there, I still often just see the penguins. Then someone mentions Mr. Seal and I find it funny all over again.

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re:Evening! early again, I know : ...friend me first, biyotch.
    Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

    <div>This! or Screen shot. Ha. </div>
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  • RP, even if you don't change someone's mind it can be beneficial to see things from other points of views. I know no one has changed my mind on any views but people have made me go "Huh, yea I can see that." 
  • I'm sure I agree with you about the death penalty, J. 
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  • I will have to wait a bit, as my SIL is actual pregnant, and I do not want to start SiL wars. She can be up tight. Ugh, I'm honest drunk tonight. MUN1, why aren't we friends yet? Let's fix that. PM me, I'm on mobile, but I'll get to it.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Evening! (early again, I know) : Yeah, I feel like this sometimes too. Sometimes I just don't have the energy to debate. Espeically since it is highly unlikely that anyone here will actually change anyones mind.
    Posted by RupertPenny[/QUOTE]

    Yup.  Sometimes I start to type, sigh, realize I don't feel like getting into it, and just close the page and do something else. 

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  • Musu - I now wonder what you think of me based on that. I always creep people's FB after I make new friends.
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  • Honestly Petal I wouldn't worry. ;) Really none of the people in this thread that I'm friends with are those that I'm thinking of. I mean, I also like people MORE too, so its not all negative by any means. 
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  • Nicki, I don't care about having TK friends or not, it's just that, like RP said, I often don't have the energy to debate it.  I used to love debating things here but it's not as fun as it used to be (I think that's a me change, not a "this board is not like it used to beeeeee!!!!" change).

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    [QUOTE]RP, even if you don't change someone's mind it can be beneficial to see things from other points of views. I know no one has changed my mind on any views but people have made me go "Huh, yea I can see that." 
    Posted by ArynBaker[/QUOTE]

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    </div><div>I feel the same way..I enjoy a good debate, and I like hearing other POV's, even if I may (or may not) disagree with them.</div><div>
    </div><div>I am also, pretty fuuckin tipsy.</div>
  • Eagles! I love the sarcastic you tha to have seen lately. Also Petal, 5 days!!!!!!!!!!!
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    [QUOTE]I know we're not supposed to mention FB on TK because its taboo, but since becoming friends with like 30 TK people, it has changed the way I view people, for better or worse. And yes, that is vagueknotting but I don't want to get REAMED for talking about people's FB on TK. Its just something that has been bothering me. 
    Posted by musicalsunlight[/QUOTE]

    Not that this has happened to me yet (I only have 3 TK friends on FB), but I can definitely see how that would happen.
  • I don't think my FB is active enough to change anyone's opinion of me. I could be wrong though. I've also had it so long you can creep back and see pics from my sophomore year in HS. Those are rough. 
  • Nikki, YGPM

    And Musu, oy with the vague knotting, girl!
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    [QUOTE]I know we're not supposed to mention FB on TK because its taboo, but since becoming friends with like 30 TK people, it has changed the way I view people, for better or worse. And yes, that is vagueknotting but I don't want to get REAMED for talking about people's FB on TK. Its just something that has been bothering me. 
    Posted by musicalsunlight[/QUOTE]

    <div>I could see this happening. I don't have anyone from TK added on FB but I would probably be the same way. </div>
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  • MuSu, I'm sure you do too.  A decent amount of people agree with my death penalty stance, but I think I'm definitely in the very small minority on the other two.

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  • Musu, I'm curious to know who those people are. Or mainly just whether or not you think I suck based on my FB.
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  • Not worried Musu, well, not too much ;). I always feel that I discover what people really look like. When someone on TK just has the same pic always in their sig, I always think they look a certain way. Then I see another pic on FB and I'm like oh that looks different.

    I'm rambling.
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  • MuSu, you can tell me if you hate me because of my FB page.

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    [QUOTE]Nikki, YGPM And Musu, oy with the vague knotting, girl!
    Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

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    </div><div>Right? But really, what I meant more was that FB shows you another side to someone that a message board doesn't always. KWIM? People are usually more comfortable with people they know IRL so I just notice random things that I didn't know about them from here.</div>
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  • I agree J. Also, it's really hard to keep up on mobile. I feel like I'm always 1.5 minutes behind in the discussion.
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