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June 2012 Weddings

FSIL Vent

So, I know I've discussed her before but today really made me say "hmmm"

She's 21 now and was married at 19 to an 18 year old marine basically because everyone told her not too. I know we have young brides here, so I'm not bashing the age, just how ridiculously immature she was about the whole thing.

Through the past almost two years they have fought over the internet, threatened divorce, then made up. In Septemberish he was set to deploy for Afghanistan and they were lovey dovey, end of September posting about how she was depressed she wasn't preggo, and then by halloween back to fighting and threatening divorce. Around Thanksgiving she changed her last name back to her maiden name on facebook (did you know you could divorce on facebook???)

So this morning I shows up in my news feed that she's in a relationship. I'm ready to jump back on their roller coaster relationship when I look more closely and the relationship is NOT WITH HER HUSBAND! She is dating someone else, while she is legally married, and PUT IT ON THE INTERNET.

Whattttt!!!!!!?????

And, I can't point it out to FI because he gets really pissy when we talk about his sister and what a moron she is.
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  • WOW.... I dont even know what to say. That makes me so, so sad. She needs a good kick in the you know what.
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    [QUOTE]WOW.... I dont even know what to say. That makes me so, so sad. She needs a good kick in the you know what.
    Posted by chelseakopperud[/QUOTE]

    <div>Ditto. All I kept saying as I read this was, "Wow." I'm so sorry you have such a crazy FSIL!! Hopefully she'll grow up and figure out her life...before y'all have kids and she's an aunt!!</div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FSIL Vent : Ditto. All I kept saying as I read this was, "Wow." I'm so sorry you have such a crazy FSIL!! Hopefully she'll grow up and figure out her life...before y'all have kids and she's an aunt!!
    Posted by kelsey+brandon[/QUOTE]

    She's nuts! FI will say she was never told "no" so just does whatever she wants.

    And, she is an aunt, FI has an older brother. She's not terrible when she's with the baby, but when she's not forced to visit I don't think she cares much. Its sad, because FIs brother and his wife have told us that the "new baby smell wore off"... Shes only 5 months old and FI and I were the only ones to visit for Christmas.
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  • I agree with Chelsea and Kelsey! I hope it can all get worked out and she matures soon. Is her busband deployed now?? I would hate for him to log into FB and see this new relationship status
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    [QUOTE]WOW.... I dont even know what to say. That makes me so, so sad. She needs a good kick in the you know what.
    Posted by chelseakopperud[/QUOTE]

    This. No words - my eyes got big and my mouth dropped open. Hopefully she'll wise up soon!

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    [QUOTE]I agree with Chelsea and Kelsey! I hope it can all get worked out and she matures soon. Is her busband deployed now?? I would hate for him to log into FB and see this new relationship status
    Posted by Ash61612[/QUOTE]

    He is. I think that they are no longer FB friends. I can't keep up... But I know she is FB friends with her husband's brother, so they'll know in Afghanistan soon enough.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FSIL Vent : He is. I think that they are no longer FB friends. I can't keep up... But I know she is FB friends with her husband's brother, so they'll know in Afghanistan soon enough.
    Posted by diamondx423[/QUOTE]
    wow. again, wow is all I can say. Sorry you have to deal with this.
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  • WOW...I have no idea what to say about this. I feel so badly for her husband. I hope he doesnt log on to FB and see this.
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    [QUOTE]WOW.... I dont even know what to say. That makes me so, so sad. She needs a good kick in the you know what.
    Posted by chelseakopperud[/QUOTE]
    Ditto this.  All I keep doing is saying 'wow' and shaking my head.  She definitely needs a wake up a call and I give you credit for not talking about it around Fi, I have that same struggle.
  • Uggggh what a little you-know-what.  I'm sorry you have to go through this Tara!  I would love to say that I hope she matures soon, but I have dealt with someone similar and it seems like some people just never get it!
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  • So are they getting divorced? Does her husband know she is "moving on" or will this be a total shock to him?
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FSIL Vent : They've said it so many times I don't beleive them any more. I just assumed we'd need to put him near the edge of pictures in the wedding to photoshop out if necessary =)
    Posted by diamondx423[/QUOTE]
    That made me giggle!  Does that make me a bad person? :)
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FSIL Vent : That made me giggle!  Does that make me a bad person? :)
    Posted by sleblanc72[/QUOTE]

    Nope, because I'm the one that had it all thought out.
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  • Haha Tara, I would be on the exact same wavelength if I were in your shoes.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FSIL Vent : They've said it so many times I don't beleive them any more. I just assumed we'd need to put him near the edge of pictures in the wedding to photoshop out if necessary =)
    Posted by diamondx423[/QUOTE]

    <div>I love this lol</div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FSIL Vent : They've said it so many times I don't beleive them any more. I just assumed we'd need to put him near the edge of pictures in the wedding to photoshop out if necessary =)
    Posted by diamondx423[/QUOTE]

    If I am ever on the edge in pictures from now on, I will wonder if I am going to get cut! hahaha
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  • Wow that is awful...there was a girl FI went to school with that added me on FB. She asked FI about deployments and how I dealth with it because her husband was getting deployed. Well he's gone and she made her status about how she's squashing the rumors and getting a divorce and said who cares? I don't anymore. It was bad. I deleted her. Show some respect for your marriage and your husband
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    [QUOTE]WOW.... I dont even know what to say. That makes me so, so sad. She needs a good kick in the you know what.
    Posted by chelseakopperud[/QUOTE]

    I agree with this. 
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