Poli's BM attire request thread got me thinking about my own experiences of being a BM and having BMs. For example, as MOH in my sister's wedding I requested please no strapless dress (due to no boobs/armpit chubblies) and no high updos (hump on the back of my neck). I ended up with both, but it was her wedding so I sucked it up. She also instructed French manicures, shoe color/material/style, and gave us the jewelry she wanted us to wear.
Then when she was MOH in my wedding, I told her she could have final say on the dress (as she was trying to transition from maternity weight) and use her best judgment for the rest of the beauty and accessories stuff (the humpneck is a family trait and prefers down-dos). She asked how I decided what to do with myself for her wedding and I recalled it for her, and she had no idea what I was talking about. I was kinda freaked out by that.
Has anyone else had this happen where either they or someone they knew totally forgot about their own weird behavior/demands during the wedding planning phase after the fact? I hear a lot of stories on here like, "my sister made me do this during her wedding and now she's making XYZ-contrary demands for being in my wedding." Is that what's happening, do they just forget? Are they too embarrassed to admit it in the light of normal life? Stories, please.
Taco cat: Always a palindrome. ALWAYS, okay J&K?
"cool......insult my size 2 body or my natural brown hair...or the fact that my parents own a country club, I have no budget for a wedding, and I have horses. I really dont care. Its better then having roots." ~ futurepivko