Earn cash as you plan. Get a $20 gift card for every 200 points with The Knot Rewards
Not Engaged Yet
S/O: Regular Registries
All this registry talk has me window shopping in my head...
(marrieds/engaged answer straight, non-engaged or non-registereds answer what you can hypothetically)
Where did/would you register?
How did you register (online, in store, etc.)? Did you do it together or alone?
What is/was on your registry (in general)?
What registry items did/do you really need?
What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want?
What is your favorite thing that you recieved off your registry?
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you love?
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you have no use for?
What is something on your registry that you'll end up purchasing yourself if you don't recieve it as a gift (or already have purchased it)?
What's the best piece of advice you can give to those who haven't registered yet?
(marrieds/engaged answer straight, non-engaged or non-registereds answer what you can hypothetically)
Where did/would you register?
How did you register (online, in store, etc.)? Did you do it together or alone?
What is/was on your registry (in general)?
What registry items did/do you really need?
What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want?
What is your favorite thing that you recieved off your registry?
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you love?
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you have no use for?
What is something on your registry that you'll end up purchasing yourself if you don't recieve it as a gift (or already have purchased it)?
What's the best piece of advice you can give to those who haven't registered yet?
This discussion has been closed.
Re: S/O: Regular Registries
Where did/would you register?
BB&B and Crate & Barrel
How did you register (online, in store, etc.)? Did you do it together or alone?
We did ours together. We did our C&B online (we already knew what we wanted to register for), and we did BB&B in-store with the little radar gun. FI thoroughly enjoyed the radar gun.
What is/was on your registry (in general)?
Lots of cooking stuff, a few housewares. Mostly kitchen and dining though.
What registry items did/do you really need?
We really need new cookware and silverware.
What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want?
A Dyson (the animal one), Kitchenaid mixer, a Soda Stream.
What is your favorite thing that you recieved off your registry?
I love the non-stick cookware we've recieved thus far...I forgot how nice it was to cook with non-stick that was actually non-stick. I'm also highly infatuated with our slowcooker and the Dyson at the moment.
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you love?
My FSIL sent us a fondue pot. We didn't register for one because there were things we needed more, but I'm so glad she sent it to us...we entertain a lot, so it will get put to good use.
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you have no use for?
We got some cookbooks that I won't use that often, simply because we've been trying to lose weight and get healthier (so our Cooking Light and Weight Watchers have been in heavy rotation). But I will use them at some point.
What is something on your registry that you'll end up purchasing yourself if you don't recieve it as a gift (or already have purchased it)?
Non-stick cookware, silverware, the dishware. We're seriously considering biting the bullet and getting the Soda Stream, considering how much money it would save us in soda alone.
What's the best piece of advice you can give to those who haven't registered yet?
Be sure to register across a wide range of price points - there will be people that can afford only a small gift, and there will be people that will want to spend a larger amount. Register for the things you truly need first, then add some things that you don't necessarily need, but that you'd really like to have. And don't think you have to register for something, just because it's tradition - if you know you'll never use fine china or crystal, then don't register for it.
"Oceana swings from logical to anus punching." - Buttons
Planning / Married / Blog
Canada has some crappy registry options, the American stores are only starting to get here. So, the options are The Bay/Home Outfitters, Sears or Bed Bath & Beyond are the only national ones I think.
How did you register (online, in store, etc.)? Did you do it together or alone?
It'll depend how involve FI wants to be, he is currently anti registry.
What is/was on your registry (in general)?
It'll be housewares stuff, ie kitchen, bedding, towels, etc.
What registry items did/do you really need?
Matching dishes beyond a set of 4 with glasses and silverware.
What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want?
New bedding.
What is your favorite thing that you recieved off your registry?
Not applicable yet
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you love?
Not applicable yet
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you have no use for?
Not applicable yet
What is something on your registry that you'll end up purchasing yourself if you don't recieve it as a gift (or already have purchased it)?
Not applicable yet
What's the best piece of advice you can give to those who haven't registered yet?
From a guest perspective, a variety of price points is important.
My Bio - updated 26/3/2011
We're planning BB&B and Crate & Barrel. We want to go in person to both so we can see quality and mix-and-match plates & bowls and see them in person first to make sure it all works together.
How did you register (online, in store, etc.)? Did you do it together or alone?
We'll probably go together to Crate & Barrel since they have a registration party where they give you food and wine and let you 'shop'. I'll probably fill in the blanks that we don't find at Crate & Barrel at BB&B on my own because I don't think he has patience for two shopping trips.
What is/was on your registry (in general)?
Kitchen & bath stuff. Mostly kitchen stuff.
What registry items did/do you really need?
Plates, bowls, silverware glassware - I'm really excited to have a cohesive kitchen!
What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want?
Wine refrigerator - totally unnecessary, but we'll use it a LOT!
What is something on your registry that you'll end up purchasing yourself if you don't recieve it as a gift (or already have purchased it)?
Furniture! And the plates/bowls/silverware. I'll buy new glassware, too, but if we don't get it off our registry, I'll probably just wait until we move so we don't have to worry about packing it.
What's the best piece of advice you can give to those who haven't registered yet?
I don't know that I'm qualified to give advice yet - I guess just what I've heard is that you need a variety of price points, and don't pick something that if you were shopping (and had money to burn) would think was not worth the cost. I mean, you can ask for a $300 knife, but when you can't see the difference between that and the $30 knife, why bother?
How did you register (online, in store, etc.)? Did you do it together or alone? I definitely want to register together. Our tastes differ so we'll need to compromise.
What is/was on your registry (in general)? I want a lot of kitchen stuff, bathroom, and bedroom stuff, and wall decor.
What registry items did/do you really need? We definitely need kitchen stuff and new bedroom sheets and stuff.
What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want? A waffle maker! Will I use it? Maybe, but I want it.
What is your favorite thing that you recieved off your registry? We're not engaged yet sooooo nothing.
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you love? n/a
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you have no use for? n/a
What is something on your registry that you'll end up purchasing yourself if you don't recieve it as a gift (or already have purchased it)? A new coffee maker. I lovveee me some coffee.
What's the best piece of advice you can give to those who haven't registered yet?
n/a
"Oceana swings from logical to anus punching." - Buttons
Planning / Married / Blog
FI really wants to register at Amazon since he is such an online shopper. So we might there and also either BB&B or Macy's.
How did you register (online, in store, etc.)? Did you do it together or alone?
Online we can do together first, and then I can fill in the holes at the store.
What is/was on your registry (in general)?
It will probably be mostly kitchen, bedroom, bathroom stuff.
What registry items did/do you really need?
a nice set of pots & pans would be nice.
What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want?
I would love a Kitchenaid Mixer. Also, new bedding would be nice. FI's is somewhat outdated. I like mine, but I have a duvet cover which is beautiful, but the duvet is such a pain. The featherbed always slips and slides and it's a pain in the morning to make it look nice when I make the bed.
What is your favorite thing that you recieved off your registry?
N/A
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you love?
N/A
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you have no use for?
N/A
What is something on your registry that you'll end up purchasing yourself if you don't recieve it as a gift (or already have purchased it)?
bedding!
What's the best piece of advice you can give to those who haven't registered yet?
Target - in store and online
BBB - online
JCPenney - online
Did you do it together or alone?
We registered a lot of it together, but some I did on my own as well.
What is/was on your registry (in general)?
Kitchen stuff (all the way from pots and pans to utensils to a KitchenAid mixer!), bathroom stuff (towels, shower curtains, etc.) and some bedroom stuff to accent our furniture and comforter. we also registered for yard/garden things and even a couple lamps and bookends. we have been saving up money to buy what we don't receive off the registry after the wedding, so everything (within reason) we wanted for our new home was put on the registry. however, we didn't put anything on there that we wouldn't buy for ourselves once the wedding was over or anything too untraditional. the most untraditional thing we registered for is a couple of board games!
What registry items did/do you really need?
um... at the risk of seeming like I'm an awful person, most of them. it's easier to tell you what we won't need! however, like I said earlier, we put everything on the registry (within reason) that we intend on purchasing later with the discount. with the exception of the KitchenAid mixer.
What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want? the KitchenAid mixer... the trumpet bookends (for FI)... the bamboo recipe box... the cupcake decorating set... the salad spinner and the herb chopper!
What is your favorite thing that you recieved off your registry? nothing has been purchased from any of our registries yet.
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you love? N/A
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you have no use for? N/A
What is something on your registry that you'll end up purchasing yourself if you don't recieve it as a gift (or already have purchased it)?
practically everything that we don't receive (or at least, as much of it as we save up money to purchase).
What's the best piece of advice you can give to those who haven't registered yet? be flexible and check back often at the things you put on your registry. we went and bought the entire set of plates/bowls/etc. that I REALLY wanted from Target because they were being discontinued. I wouldn't have known if I hadn't gone back to check the availability of the items. have fun. let him hold the scanner for a while because you can always go back and delete the 15 bags of gummy bears that just so happened to appear on the registry!
Crate and Barrel, Home Depot, La Z Boy
How did you register (online, in store, etc.)? Did you do it together or alone?
Probably will do this together
What registry items did/do you really need?
A decent set of knives, A sofa/ottoman, Patio furniture
What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want?
Ice Cream maker.
[QUOTE]I now officially am craving waffles. Thanks a lot. lol
Posted by oceana919[/QUOTE]
<div>
</div><div>I was thinking the same thing. I want cherry pie filling and whip cream on mine. YOM!</div>
How did you register (online, in store, etc.)? Did you do it together or alone?
What is/was on your registry (in general)?
What registry items did/do you really need?
What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want?
What is your favorite thing that you recieved off your registry?
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you love?
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you have no use for?
A veggie tray thingy for a grill. We don't have a grill, and I just use a cookie sheet in the oven broiler.
What is something on your registry that you'll end up purchasing yourself if you don't recieve it as a gift (or already have purchased it)?
What's the best piece of advice you can give to those who haven't registered yet?
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O: Regular Registries : I was thinking the same thing. I want cherry pie filling and whip cream on mine. YOM!
Posted by NurseyK[/QUOTE]
STOP IT...
::plugs ears and sings "la la la" at the top of her lungs::
"Oceana swings from logical to anus punching." - Buttons
Planning / Married / Blog
We registered at JC Penney and Target.
How did you register (online, in store, etc.)? Did you do it together or alone?
A little bit of both. We went to the stores together and picked some things then we looked online together and I added stuff both online and in the store by myself.
What is/was on your registry (in general)?
House stuff? Mostly upgrades to things we already had.
What registry items did/do you really need?
Kitchen stuff, our cookie sheets were awful, the new ones are fabulous.
What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want?
My Kitchen Aid, so in love!
What is your favorite thing that you recieved off your registry?
See above.
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you love?
My grandfather bought us knives and cutting boards we didn't register for and threw us a little shower, just him and us, when he found out he wasn't invited to my big one. This was 2 months before the wedding and a month before he passed away.
What's something you didn't register for, but you received, and you have no use for?
A desk drawer organizer. I returned it.
What is something on your registry that you'll end up purchasing yourself if you don't receive it as a gift (or already have purchased it)?
There was a couple rugs we put on there not expecting to get as gifts but wanted the completion discount.
What's the best piece of advice you can give to those who haven't registered yet?
Put lots of different things on there in many different price points. You never know who will want to spend what.
As Hazel said - Canada doesn't have as much selection. We're going with Sears and maybe Home Sense. But definately Sears.
How did you register (online, in store, etc.)? Did you do it together or alone?
We went to Sears and the registry person wasn't there. I think we'll probably just do it together online. We have a running list of things to add.
What is/was on your registry (in general)?
Kitchen stuff, bedding upgrades, towel/cloth/bath upgrades
What registry items did/do you really need?
The majority of our kitchen stuff was given to me after my grandmother passed (from her kitchen) so with a few exceptions we need a LOT of kitchen stuff.
What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want?
Kitchen Aid Mixer with ice cream attachment.
What is your favorite thing that you recieved off your registry?
I haven't made it yet but my brother and sister heard we wanted new cutlery and got us a really nice set for Christmas.
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you love?
Can I say that my FMIL got me this AMAZING crystal cake stand for Christmas. It's not something I would have thought of but I LURVES it.
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you have no use for?
Nothing yet!
What is something on your registry that you'll end up purchasing yourself if you don't recieve it as a gift (or already have purchased it)?
Knife set
What's the best piece of advice you can give to those who haven't registered yet?
Iunno. What can you tell me?;)
"Popular on the internetz..."
Canada is kind of like a whole other world with new things to discover that us americans only dream of. - Narwhal
Paige I would like to profess my love for you and your brilliant mind. - breezerb
Murried Bio
We registered at Crate and Barrel because I LOVE what they have- even though we don't have one nearby. Only a couple of folks ordered stuff from there.
We also registered at JCPenney and Target. Those were decent options, but a vast majority of our gifts came from Target.
How did you register (online, in store, etc.)?
Both- we did Crate & Barrel online, obviously. JCPenney and Target in-store, but we used the websites to keep everything updated.
Did you do it together or alone?
Together initially, but I updated things that were discontinued/out of stock.
What is/was on your registry (in general)?
Lots of kitchen & dining room stuff- things that MATCHED, unlike our mish-mash of college-type stuff. Also, some bathroom sets (we have 3 bathrooms in our house... we needed to put things in them!), and bedroom stuff- comforter, sheets, pillows, etc.
What registry items did/do you really need?
We really didn't NEED a whole lot. I had lived alone and DH had things from college, we had "stuff," but nothing nice. I think we really NEEDED new knives and towels... but we could have gotten by with what we had otherwise. It just wasn't pretty. lol
What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want?
I really WANTED our bedroom set and dishes.
What is your favorite thing that you received off your registry?
I love my Kitchen Aid mixer! I didn't think I'd see what all the fuss was about, but I registered for one and my friends chipped in to buy it for me. It's kind of awesome. I don't use it a whole lot, but it's SO handy for mashed potatoes and cookies and all kinds of things I haven't been able to make yet!
What's something you didn't register for, but you received, and you love?
I love the personalized photo frame my friend got for us. It has our names, wedding date, and says "It doesn't matter where you go in life, what you do, or how much you have... It's who you have beside you."
What's something you didn't register for, but you received, and you have no use for?
Crock pot, ice cream maker, and a microwave rice/veggie steamer that doesn't fit in our microwave. None of those things are bad on their own... and were honestly cool when we got them... but we haven't used them more than a time or two.
What is something on your registry that you'll end up purchasing yourself if you don't receive it as a gift (or already have purchased it)?
We bought A LOT of things. We used the money/gift cards we got to buy living room furniture. We also bought dinner and salad plates. Still need to buy bowls and serving dishes someday. Bought our comforter and sheets... I don't know what else.
What's the best piece of advice you can give to those who haven't registered yet?
Don't bet on it. I hate to sound ungrateful, because I'm not. I really appreciate all the things we got. I had a wonderful wedding and enjoyed spending time with people I love. But I think maybe I did the registry wrong or something. Or maybe it's just our luck (very possible, DH and I both have terrible luck with parties and holiday events). We hardly got any of the basics. At my bridal shower, I got one item from my registry. I followed advice from other brides, and I checked websites for ideas and tips... I did my best. But we were left buying a lot to set up our home. One of my friends commented that she felt "bad" for me. That was a little embarrassing, lol.
Just don't expect to get a lot from your registry, much like not expecting a proposal. Be pleasantly surprised if it happens, but be prepared to just have a great time with friends and family just in case you get 3 bridal shower gifts.
Married to my best friend, making our way together through this crazy, mixed-up thing we call life.
I would register at Bed, Bath, and Beyond and Crate & Barrel.
I can't answer any of the other questions, but I suspect that BF and I will probably first be living together when we get engaged (due to finances and stuff) so I'll be registering for a LOT of stuff - kitchen appliances, china, silverware, glassware, flatware, bathroom and bedroom accessories like towels, sheets, etc.
I'm giddy with excitement. Kind of.
How did you register (online, in store, etc.)? Did you do it together or alone?
What is/was on your registry (in general)?
House stuff. Most of our current kitchen wares are either hand-me-downs, or from the dollar store. We don't have any nice bathroom stuff, and we could use some new sheets and things like that. Maybe even a new lamp, or vase, or mirror or something as well. I guess we'd need some larger stuff as well, so perhaps some kind of furniture...
What registry items did/do you really need?
What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want?
What is something on your registry that you'll end up purchasing yourself if you don't recieve it as a gift (or already have purchased it)?
Life is good today.
How did you register (online, in store, etc.)? Did you do it together or alone?
What is/was on your registry (in general)?
What registry items did/do you really need?
What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want?
Wall art
What is your favorite thing that you recieved off your registry?
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you love?
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you have no use for?
What is something on your registry that you'll end up purchasing yourself if you don't recieve it as a gift (or already have purchased it)?
What's the best piece of advice you can give to those who haven't registered yet?
Macy's, BB&B, Pottery Barn
How did you register (online, in store, etc.)? Did you do it together or alone?
We went together, in the store. We went 2x. First to look at everything and compare (compare styles of glasses, flatware, etc.)
What is/was on your registry (in general)?
Lots of kitchen items. Small appliances. Home decor. Beddings and linens.
What registry items did/do you really need?
Vacuuum! Other stuffs.
What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want?
Pretty home decor - baskets, candles, lanterns, throw blankets, etc.
What is your favorite thing that you recieved off your registry?
My breakfast in bed tray! It inspires my hubby to make me breakfast!
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you love?
This book that you fill out on every anniversary and tell about that year of your marriage. So cute!
What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you have no use for?
Hmmm. It's not that we didn't NEED the things, we just already had them.
What is something on your registry that you'll end up purchasing yourself if you don't recieve it as a gift (or already have purchased it)?
Our china! I love it!
What's the best piece of advice you can give to those who haven't registered yet?
Pottery Barn was overrated. Most things we got from them were broken and needed to be returned.
BBB, Target, and Crate and Barrel or William Sonoma
How did you register (online, in store, etc.)? Did you do it together or alone?
I think FI is more excited about registering than I am so we'll probably do in store together
What is/was on your registry (in general)?
Probably kitchen crap.
What registry items did/do you really need?
Everything except a mixer and Kuerig machine.
What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want?
Margarita Blender and a Dyson.
What is something on your registry that you'll end up purchasing yourself if you don't recieve it as a gift (or already have purchased it)?
The Margaritaville blender.
Married Bio
Just Amazon.com so far.
<strong>How did you register (online, in store, etc.)? Did you do it together or alone?</strong>
Online, since Amazon doesn't have stores. I was bored one day, put some things on there, showed it to FI and gave him access to add/remove at will.
<strong>What is/was on your registry (in general)?</strong>
It's so short, I can give you actual:
vacuum, knives, dishes, servingware, and a stick blender
<strong>What registry items did/do you really need?</strong>
None of them, but I've been threatening to replace the vacuum for at least a year now
<strong>What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want?</strong>
vacuum (it's a Hoover Platinum) and the stick blender
<strong>What is your favorite thing that you recieved off your registry?</strong>
N/A
<strong>What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you love?</strong>
N/A
<strong>What's something you didn't register for, but you recieved, and you have no use for?</strong>
N/A
<strong>What is something on your registry that you'll end up purchasing yourself if you don't recieve it as a gift (or already have purchased it)?</strong>
The vacuum, but we might get a less expensive Hoover
<strong>What's the best piece of advice you can give to those who haven't registered yet?
</strong>I'll get back to you when I have advice. For now, I'll take it. =)
ETA:
[QUOTE]
What registry items did/do you not necessarily need, but you really kinda want?
<strong>Kitchen Aid Mixer with ice cream attachment.[/QUOTE]
<strong>
</strong>Paige, I got the ice cream attachment for my parents a few years ago. It's awesome. You do need a big freezer to keep it in, though.
</strong>
I haz a planning bio