Another dilemma! 2nd wedding for us, we requested in the annoucements that in lieu of gifts we picked to fundraisers. (Our kids H.S. sports teams that we are heavily involved with & can get costly) So, they have an option to donate or not. It really doesn't matter to me and I won't be offended in any way if no one gives. We didnt see the need for gifts as we have been living togther and have everything we need. So, should I do a cardbox? I would rather not have one if it seems pushy or makes guests feel obligated to give. Opinions? Suggestions? TIA!