so i'm having 4 BM at my wedding. 2 of the BMs and I were all really close and always hung out with each other... the 3 of us would always have girls night out, etc. however, a problem arised when it involved these 2 BM. Now they are no longer talking to each other nor hanging out for months now. My wedding is in july 2011 and i dont know if one of the BM still wants to be a bridesmaid. I dont know how to ask her without her thinking i'm favoring the other one. How should I approach to her without offending her and asking if she still wants to be part of the bridal party?