My FMIL is going through some medical problems. My Fh has been staying with her at the hospital the past couple of days. My mother loves fresh flowers; their vivid and smell good. So my mom always told me to give her flowers while shes here on earth and she can enjoy them.i give my mother flowers just because its Tuesday..lol.. So I thought it would be nice to take my FMIl some fresh flowers to her hospital room. I walked in gave her a kiss on the cheek, I visited for
@20 minutes before the doctor came in. I excused myself since I felt that would be a private disscussion among the family. My FMIL treated me no diff than any other time, but his sisters were like perranias with wedding questions. picking at this and that. Well my FMIl asked my if I had my FH grooms cake. I told her yes..its going to be a xbox 360 cake.I wanted it to be s surprise. She said she wanted to pick his cake. I told her she could..that he could have both cakes..His family was like 2 cakes?? Why not?? If I wanted 1o cakes..thats what we would have at OUR wedding...Im not an unreasonable person and definitely dont want to have his mother feel left out. Thought it was a nice to meet in the middle..his sister told me "well does he have an opinion in this wedding?" My feeling are so hurt right now. My FH told me he only cared about what we chose for the registgry and he wanted to chose his tux...thats it..The rest of the stuff..he says its whatever I want..