Who said "I love you" first.

JKeyes2011 · May 2010

I saw this on my Wedding Month board.

My Fi said it first maybe about 2 weeks into us dating. He definately fell first. I said it a few days later, but not as in "I'm in love with you!" way. He and I were friends before and I loved him as the friend he was to me. It was around my birthday that year which was just over a month into us dating when I realized I was IN LOVE with him. I continued to say it, and a few weeks later I told him about the point I knew I loved him.

cincy2011 · May 2010

My baby said it about one month after we met. I was somewhat expecting it from the way he'd been talking, but it was still a surprise when he actually said it. I said it back right away b/c I had already fallen in love with him also!

YasJas2011 · May 2010

I so said it first! LOL!!! He was a stubborn as*! He didn't tell me until after some months! Punk!!! LOL!!

missrekaeagle · May 2010

I really don't remember. I tried to ask FI this morning so I could participate in the poll, but he didn't remember either lol.

wheatney22 · May 2010

He did. About 8-months after we started dating. I did about 2-months after that. Let's just say I have trust issues. Dated a lot of frogs and didn't want to put my heart on the line. Thankfully, FI was patient with me :-)

smooth84 · May 2010

He did.. a couple months in. He basically said I love you and I know you love me. I fessed up a couple days later

luckyinloveaz · May 2010

I cant remember who said it first. I do remember 2 weeks after we had been talking on the phone and 1 date, he had asked where were we (meaning were we dating etc..) I was like whoa baby. He knew he had found a FABULOUS woman and he wasn't gonna let me go. lol

MrsDorris2be · May 2010

He tricked me into saying it first. One day he just asked out of the clear blue " Do you love me?" I said yes. He said, " Good, 'cause I love you too."

Mypasmita · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_said-love-first?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:da0ce59d-6bff-49e5-bb00-6de1d069b716Post:fc96dadd-2b4b-4c2f-97d7-a73e7b087513">Re: Who said "I love you" first.</a>:
[QUOTE]I so said it first! LOL!!! He was a stubborn as*! He didn't tell me until after some months! Punk!!! LOL!!
Posted by YasJas2011[/QUOTE]

Yep! Same here. Double PUNK. LOL!

lca315girl · May 2010

I'm pretty sure I did.

TwinsRib · May 2010

He said it first about 2 months after we started dating... He tried to say it a bunch of times for about 2 weeks before it finally came out... I believe his words leading up to the actual decleration were: "I'm falling" and "i've fallen" ... every time I replied with "that's sweet!" knowing what he was really trying to say lol... He finally come out with it after our first argument... I think he was scared I was gonna drop him (I wasn't) lol

bbyckes · May 2010

Technically FI said it first. I had whispered something that had "love" in it. He thought I said, "I love you, too." Funny, but sweet at the same time.

KSTURGIS · May 2010

He did. He had been chasing me for years. He always told me that I was the one. But I kept him in the friend category. I dont know exactly when or why I gave him a real chance. It just was the right time I guess.

DanielleB80 · May 2010

FH did.... a few weeks after we met. He kept telling me God had given him his wife...me. I thought to myself, this guy is nuts! But turns out he wasn't! LOL I fell for him and told him I loved him too... a month or two later.

cyndon · May 2010

I said it first and he said to me "tell me something I don't already know" LOL. He can be a real butt at times! He did say it back a few minutes later though.

eagles347 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_said-love-first?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:da0ce59d-6bff-49e5-bb00-6de1d069b716Post:e97ebdea-58ea-48ab-acc9-cc9507f65ff6">Re: Who said "I love you" first.</a>:
[QUOTE]He did. He had been chasing me for years. He always told me that I was the one. But I kept him in the friend category. I dont know exactly when or why I gave him a real chance. It just was the right time I guess.
Posted by KSTURGIS[/QUOTE]

Exactly this...lol. So crazy, but you took my exact words!

tamtam7 · May 2010

I did. I told a friend of mine earlier that day and then later on that evening I told him. And he smiled and told me that he loved me too. I was kinda embarrased because I had never told anyone that I dated in the past that I loved them first, but I guess I always knew that he loved me as well, so that's what made it easier.

KMB611 · May 2010

It was cute how he said it. The night before he officially said it, he told me on the phone that he was falling in love with me. The next evening we were watching movies at his place. We were cuddled on the sofa and he whispered in my ear, "I love you." Then, he kissed me. Then I replied, "I love you too." He was the first guy I ever said, "I love you," to.

stdsxk13 · May 2010

He said it first. He had a horrible week, and I had invited him over for dinner and a movie, and we were sitting on the couch talking, and he kinda just blurted it out. There was even a tear in his eye.