FI and I (and my parents who are paying for the entire wedding) had decided a while back that we wouldn't be giving people the option to bring a guest, unless they were in a relationship with someone (dating, engaged, married) This worked for us because our guests are close family & friends and everyone being invited knows at least 10-15 ppl there.
Here are our three different plus 1 issues.....
BM (who is FI's sister) apparently wants to bring a date to our wedding. This would be fine by me, but she's not in a relationship with anyone, and still doesnt know who she may or may not bring. We've also never talked about whether or not she'd be given a "plus 1" option in the first place. From what I've heard, she is hoping that this guy she likes will break up with his GF in time for the wedding so she can bring him (ugh.)
A while ago, I was talking to one of my MOHs who asked if she was going to be able to bring a date to the wedding...I said sure, figuring that there was a good chance that she'd be dating someone by the time of the wedding. She was dating someone about 6 months ago but just broke up with him one month ago. In a more recent casual conversation, she said "oh its ok, maybe I'll bring "so and so" since we're good friends.
FI's father, jokingly to my FI & his friend, asked if he could bring a "plus 1" to the wedding, and that he was going to start "searching" (both online & at bars) for a date to bring.
Given their current relationship status' can I address their invitations to just them and not with a "plus 1" or "and guest" ?? Should I talk to MOH and tell her that my parents vetoed the "plus 1 for a friend" (which is true?)
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