BM doesn't want to chip in for Bachelorette

healyl99 · April 2010

and I don't think AC is such a lavish place. That was a sarcastic comment directed at the girl saying that ac is so expensive

stina93446 · April 2010

If you're talking about me, I was refering to NYC. Not crap shooting AC.

mbcdefg · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_bm-doesnt-want-chip-bachelorette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:01bff517-fa84-4a68-94b2-5308049c7ad9Post:acea2bc1-9438-4e80-bd67-185c4660dbfe">Re: BM doesn't want to chip in for Bachelorette</a>:
[QUOTE]sorry you dumb ass if you read my previous responses I am from the Philadelphia area. I have a beach house in Ocean City which is no where near ac the the bums and the jitney buses which I have never been on before
Posted by healyl99[/QUOTE]

But I thought we were supposed to be jealous that your lovely bachelorette party is in Atlantic City?

pinkpinot · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_bm-doesnt-want-chip-bachelorette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:01bff517-fa84-4a68-94b2-5308049c7ad9Post:acea2bc1-9438-4e80-bd67-185c4660dbfe">Re: BM doesn't want to chip in for Bachelorette</a>:
[QUOTE]sorry you dumb ass if you read my previous responses I am from the Philadelphia area. I have a beach house in Ocean City which is no where near ac the the bums and the jitney buses which I have never been on before
Posted by healyl99[/QUOTE]

The only dumbass is you. You NEVER mentioned that in previous posts.

duckie1905 · April 2010

OP-Don't listen to all these bitoches! Your BMs KNEW what was expected of them when they signed your contract. All of this is about you and she should be bending over backwards to make you happy. IMO, she should be paying $700 for your party if that is what you want because you are all that matters. All your BMs should move in with you to wait on you hand and foot in this incredibly stressful and important time in your life.

And, just before you run with this, I'm kidding and you are a pathetic and awful excuse for a human being.

And, I FEEL SO SORRY FOR YOUR FI. hahahaha

have a nice day jersey.

tidetravel · April 2010

lalap69 · April 2010

You caught me. I'm just jealous of how awesome you are.

Where awesome means trashy.

baystateapple · April 2010

Tide -- that's perfect.

healyl99 · April 2010

well I had to assume you were jealous if all you were doing is calling me spoiled, brat, bridezilla, etc. I would rather be a bridezilla and have everything go smoothly than to have it all go to crap. Really. You only get married once, so you better make it a good one. I am just saying a lot was put into this wedding.. money and time.. so it's natural for you to want everything to go smoothly. A bridezilla is someone who would go and scream at their BM and scream at everyone and you all know I did nothing of that nature, that I only came on here to vent, so I did nothing bridezilla.. we went through this.. MOH asked nicely for money, BM refused but went on the say that the other 2 groomsmen should be willing to contribute being a part of the wedding party and that is what got me ticked off... to tell me 15 year old brother to put in money and tell someone who lives in CA to put in money when he is not even coming to AC with us

baystateapple · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_bm-doesnt-want-chip-bachelorette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:01bff517-fa84-4a68-94b2-5308049c7ad9Post:62b50c19-3e64-4fdd-bfbc-faa3adc1c2eb">Re: BM doesn't want to chip in for Bachelorette</a>:
[QUOTE]well I had to assume you were jealous if all you were doing is calling me spoiled, brat, bridezilla, etc.
Posted by healyl99[/QUOTE]

Oh, right. Because we would never call you bridezilla just because you ARE a bridezilla. Of course.

pinkpinot · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_bm-doesnt-want-chip-bachelorette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:01bff517-fa84-4a68-94b2-5308049c7ad9Post:70bd2305-5ed6-42fe-8141-f766ca77b0e4">Re: BM doesn't want to chip in for Bachelorette</a>:
[QUOTE]and I don't think AC is such a lavish place. That was a sarcastic comment directed at the girl saying that ac is so expensive
Posted by healyl99[/QUOTE]

Oh that was me. And AC is expensive so get over yourself.

lalap69 · April 2010

This is how I imagine you:

But I'm sure it's only because I'm jealous.

tidetravel · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_bm-doesnt-want-chip-bachelorette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:01bff517-fa84-4a68-94b2-5308049c7ad9Post:62b50c19-3e64-4fdd-bfbc-faa3adc1c2eb">Re: BM doesn't want to chip in for Bachelorette</a>:
[QUOTE]well I had to assume you were jealous if all you were doing is calling me spoiled, brat, bridezilla, etc. <strong>I would rather be a bridezilla and have everything go smoothly than to have it all go to crap. Really.   You only get married once, so you better make it a good one. I am just saying a lot was put into this wedding.. money and time.. so it's natural for you to want everything to go smoothly.</strong> A bridezilla is someone who would go and scream at their BM and scream at everyone and you all know I did nothing of that nature, that I only came on here to vent, so I did nothing bridezilla.. we went through this.. MOH asked nicely for money, BM refused but went on the say that the other 2 groomsmen should be willing to contribute being a part of the wedding party and that is what got me ticked off... to tell me 15 year old brother to put in money and tell someone who lives in CA to put in money when he is not even coming to AC with us
Posted by healyl99[/QUOTE]

OP - I suggest you calm down, step away, and come back and reread this at another time. You are getting WAY too worked up.

If you do that, you'll probably realize that things WILL go wrong, your wedding WON'T be perfect, regardless of how much money you put into it, and once the cake is cut, what you are left with are simply memories of ONE day.

Do you want those memories to be good or bad. Because wanting things to go perfect is ABSOLUTELY NOT just cause to act like a Bridezilla.

Stage - Thank you. <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-kiss.gif" border="0" alt="Kiss" title="Kiss" />  It's been a while since we've both been on

duckie1905 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_bm-doesnt-want-chip-bachelorette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:01bff517-fa84-4a68-94b2-5308049c7ad9Post:62b50c19-3e64-4fdd-bfbc-faa3adc1c2eb">Re: BM doesn't want to chip in for Bachelorette</a>:
[QUOTE] You only get married once, so you better make it a good one. I am just saying a lot was put into this wedding.. money and time.. so it's natural for you to want everything to go smoothly. Posted by healyl99[/QUOTE]

I don't know about you but I'm getting married as many times as it takes those skanky BMs of mine to get my parties RIGHT!

pinkpinot · April 2010

lala: I imagine her to be more like this:

mbcdefg · April 2010

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[QUOTE]well I had to assume you were jealous if all you were doing is calling me spoiled, brat, bridezilla, etc.
Posted by healyl99[/QUOTE]

No, people are calling you spoiled, brat, bridezilla, etc., because you ARE spoiled, a brat and a bridezilla. The "You're just jealous" bullshit is the line that brats use because they don't want to accept that they could ever possibly be wrong.

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_bm-doesnt-want-chip-bachelorette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:01bff517-fa84-4a68-94b2-5308049c7ad9Post:62b50c19-3e64-4fdd-bfbc-faa3adc1c2eb">Re: BM doesn't want to chip in for Bachelorette</a>:
[QUOTE]I would rather be a bridezilla and have everything go smoothly than to have it all go to crap. Really. You only get married once, so you better make it a good one. I am just saying a lot was put into this wedding.. money and time.. so it's natural for you to want everything to go smoothly.
Posted by healyl99[/QUOTE]

bachelorette party =/= wedding

How is one girl refusing to pay a paltry $7 going to make things turn to crap? I think that ship has LONG sailed here, honey. Your self-entitled attitude is the real crap here.

And, yes, I agree that you probably won't find a second person who wants to marry you, given the opportunity.

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_bm-doesnt-want-chip-bachelorette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:01bff517-fa84-4a68-94b2-5308049c7ad9Post:62b50c19-3e64-4fdd-bfbc-faa3adc1c2eb">Re: BM doesn't want to chip in for Bachelorette</a>:
MOH asked nicely for money, BM refused but went on the say that the other 2 groomsmen should be willing to contribute being a part of the wedding party and that is what got me ticked off... to tell me 15 year old brother to put in money and tell someone who lives in CA to put in money when he is not even coming to AC with us
Posted by healyl99[/QUOTE]

So let the MOH handle it. It's none of YOUR business.

lalap69 · April 2010

pink - you're right. I totally should have coloured the dinosaur orange. :P

kd.joseph · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_bm-doesnt-want-chip-bachelorette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:01bff517-fa84-4a68-94b2-5308049c7ad9Post:62b50c19-3e64-4fdd-bfbc-faa3adc1c2eb">Re: BM doesn't want to chip in for Bachelorette</a>:
[QUOTE]well I had to assume you were jealous if all you were doing is calling me spoiled, brat, bridezilla, etc. I would rather be a bridezilla and have everything go smoothly than to have it all go to crap. Really. You only get married once, so you better make it a good one. I am just saying a lot was put into this wedding.. money and time.. so it's natural for you to want everything to go smoothly. A bridezilla is someone who would go and scream at their BM and scream at everyone and you all know I did nothing of that nature, that I only came on here to vent, so I did nothing bridezilla.. we went through this.. MOH asked nicely for money, BM refused but went on the say that the other 2 groomsmen should be willing to contribute being a part of the wedding party and that is what got me ticked off... to tell me 15 year old brother to put in money and tell someone who lives in CA to put in money when he is not even coming to AC with us
Posted by healyl99[/QUOTE]

You have repeated this same statement about 5 times now.Yes we get it MOH asked she said "no", MOH ran to mommy and told her BM wasnt cooperating.So Mommy is on the warpath. And wants her to fork over her money. We get it!
What you dont get is we will never agree with you, GET OVER IT!
You act like my 19 year old with the constant but,but....you have to agree I'm right about everything.

And with your attitude you'll have plenty more weddings ..........believe me!

lalap69 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_bm-doesnt-want-chip-bachelorette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:01bff517-fa84-4a68-94b2-5308049c7ad9Post:111c1d7a-8f6f-4dc3-8b7e-432d201a167d">Re: BM doesn't want to chip in for Bachelorette</a>:
[QUOTE]And, yes, I agree that you probably won't find a second person who wants to marry you, given the opportunity.
Posted by mbcdefg[/QUOTE]
Malphabet, I want to draw hearts all around you for this.

healyl99 · April 2010

I am not like Snookie. Snookie is from North Jersey or NYC, one of those who all her buddies decided to stay at some motel in seaside.. they are not locals.

healyl99 · April 2010

you guys are all too typical.. I knew when I said you only get married once, I had a feeling you guys would come back with those typical comments

suz62984 · April 2010

Healyl99 do you seriously not see how bratty you are being after 215+ posts and 30 something people telling you that you are acting pretty crappy??? It's not because we are jealous. You mentioned that you were being this way so that things would go smoothly. Yes, they may go smoothly; however, if you continue with your attitude and actions then you won't have anybody left on your side after the wedding. It's not about the day...it's about your life with your husband that matters.

shoegal715 · April 2010

I pictured her like this. Except she'd be wearing a Jersey Shore t-shirt instead.

AdeleDazeem · April 2010

Oh my god.

1. I can't believe this thread is still going on, but I appreciate that the OP has come to play with us.

2. Ziti may win for asking over and over how old the OP is... that made me laugh the most.

3. I grew up in South Jersey and have been to Ocean City every summer of my entire life. I'm scared I may actually know the OP. And now I'm a little ashamed.

4. OP - get over yourself. The end!

suz62984 · April 2010

Remember the girl from Bridezillas that hated poor people. You just wanted to her to play in traffic on a US Highway or something... Well that's kinda what I picture Healyl99 as.

mbcdefg · April 2010

Speaking of Seaside, I could sure go for a Midway cheesesteak right about now.

healyl99 · April 2010

yeah I would act bratty after people telling me how I am acting crappy. Who are they to tell me.

healyl99 · April 2010

I can see how you can portray me as a bridezilla. You are basing on what you are hearing but I am not a bridezilla and I don't have a Platinum wedding or anything of the sorts. I was just a little ticked off about a bridesmaid. That's all

zitiqueen · April 2010

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[QUOTE] 2. Ziti may win for asking over and over how old the OP is... that made me laugh the most.
Posted by Joy2611[/QUOTE]

Stupid whore never did answer me...

duckie1905 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_bm-doesnt-want-chip-bachelorette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:01bff517-fa84-4a68-94b2-5308049c7ad9Post:cdf16d59-db54-4a42-8923-9dad7fa95830">Re: BM doesn't want to chip in for Bachelorette</a>:
[QUOTE]yeah I would act bratty after people telling me how I am acting crappy. Who are they to tell me.
Posted by healyl99[/QUOTE]

maybe it is the other way around. We are calling you a brat because you are acting like one.

And who are we to tell you. YOU EFFING ASKED US! Youtold us your whole pathetic story.

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