How do you word "no kids allowed" on wedding invitation?

eviliciouz · September 2012

Hi Knotties,

I love kids and kids love me. However, for our wedding I want it to be strictly adult. Nothing against kids, I just want a day where all adults can enjoy our time together. How do I word this in my invitation?

TIA like always

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klminor17 · September 2012

I did not put it on the invitation, but made a small card that I attached to the invite stating that due to the location of the wedding and space limitations, it would be an adults only event. It went over fine, but I only sent invites to a few people that had kids. If you google it, there are a lot of ways to say it.

No one was offened in my case, but you do have to be careful. I would be leary about doing it if I would have had a home wedding, as many people want their kids to enjoy the fun too.. I think Vegas gives you a bit of leeway with it.

MEMSJQ · September 2012

I think if you put "Adult reception" or "adult occassion" you should be okay... I like the idea of the additional card... or disclaimer haa haa

my friend held her wedding locally last year and she had the ceremony in the church so there were no restrictions but for the reception she did specify an "Adults Only Reception to follow"

Knottie1450123632 · September 2012

normally if you address the invites to first name and spouse and NOT list kids on invites most pple understand that kids not invited if they arent addressed.

eviliciouz · September 2012

Thank you for the suggestions. I like the small card idea and I'm pretty sure most people with kids on our guests list will not bring their kids. I'm just doing it for "just in case".

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vegasgroom · September 2012

We simply addressed our invites to the people we wanted to invite and gave no option for filling in any number of rsvp's. Those who were given a +1 for a guest also didn't have kids so that potential issue was not a factor for us.

One guest contacted me directly to ask about kids, I said it's an adults only reception; non-issue, she came regardless.

krisstyle12 · September 2012

Adults only, please.

In the end, someone did bring their kid--they didn't have as much fun as everyone else. LOL

The ones who left their kids at home said this was the first time in 7 years they had a vacation with just the 2 of them.

ldv6 · September 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_nevada-las-vegas_how-do-you-word-no-kids-allowed-on-wedding-invitation?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:91Discussion:2099281a-8e16-42fc-b447-833df9fa8e23Post:fe6e46fd-0347-4c6f-92cc-de54b904cc83">Re: How do you word "no kids allowed" on wedding invitation?</a>:
[QUOTE]Thank you for the suggestions. I like the small card idea and I'm pretty sure most people with kids on our guests list will not bring their kids. I'm just doing it for "just in case". :).
Posted by eviliciouz[/QUOTE]

Unfortunatley, I learned the hard way on this one. We addressed it to my aunt, uncle and cousin and got back a reply for not 3 but 4 adults plus one toddler! If I could do it again, I'd save myself the hassle and worry and simply put a disclaimer lol Never assume people will know no kids are invited (even if it is Vegas!)

Something like "please join us for an adult celebration"

eviliciouz · September 2012

That's what I was worried about if someone brought their kid/s because we don't have many friends with kids, that kid will be the only kid there and won't have a good time. I think I will use many "please" words on our invitation. Adults only please10x.

Knottie1450123632 · September 2012

ldv- i would call and say im sorry toddler and the extra adult not invited and wasnt on the invite list

arrestclementine · September 2012

I wouldn't put "No Kids" or "Adults Only" on the invitations. I would just address it to those that are invited. Then I would spread the word to your parents, family and such so that way it is known that kids are not invited or that it is an Adults Only thing.

ldv6 · September 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_nevada-las-vegas_how-do-you-word-no-kids-allowed-on-wedding-invitation?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:91Discussion:2099281a-8e16-42fc-b447-833df9fa8e23Post:ee69f276-ca57-444f-9e50-0325f2f879dd">Re: How do you word "no kids allowed" on wedding invitation?</a>:
[QUOTE]ldv- i would call and say im sorry toddler and the extra adult not invited and wasnt on the invite list
Posted by southerncutie[/QUOTE

This family drama ship has sailed long ago! I called and said the todler coudn't come which resulted in my cousin and her plus one also not coming. Problem solved! But a simple "adults only" sentance would have saved me the hassle and confrontation. Especially since in my case the word of mouth (from multiple family members to my cousin) did not work!

Good luck with whatever you decide to do! Ultimatley its your decision and just stick to your guns no matter what you want!

Knottie1450123632 · September 2012

ahhh ok ldv.

afeliz79 · September 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_nevada-las-vegas_how-do-you-word-no-kids-allowed-on-wedding-invitation?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:91Discussion:2099281a-8e16-42fc-b447-833df9fa8e23Post:eb03fe8d-1a9b-4a1b-b418-05d8c70785bc">Re: How do you word "no kids allowed" on wedding invitation?</a>:
[QUOTE]I wouldn't put "No Kids" or "Adults Only" on the invitations. I would just address it to those that are invited. Then I would spread the word to your parents, family and such so that way it is known that kids are not invited or that it is an Adults Only thing.
Posted by amber0389[/QUOTE]

I agree with this.

allysa04 · September 2012

No matter HOW you do it, likely you'll have the one jerk that calls and asks about their kid...or in my case, doesn't ask, just brings them!!!! The only kid I want at our wedding is our nephew, but he's awesome. His grandparents will be there to babysit when we want adult time with my future sister in law...soooo...yeah.

The girl that is bringing her son said "it's his birthday, so it's his trip" UHM HELLO..he doesn't need to be at my wedding. This kid is having some major identity issues (thinks he's gay (12yo), has relationships with people online, etc) it's just a bad situation. The worst part about it is he will tell ANYONE who listens...if he sucks my nephew into this I will beat him!

Anyways..good luck on the no kids thing, hopefully you have respectful guests!

eviliciouz · September 2012

Allysa, I feel bad for you. Kids these days are mature way too fast. When I was 12, I played with my friends, listened to NKOTB music, and just enjoy being a tween. Not having online relationship. Sorry for your family/friends drama, I hope your wedding will still be awesome despite everything.

xinabride · September 2012

On my invitations I put # of seats reserved in your honor instead of saying adults only.

Couples responded well to it, saying its nice to not be told no kids or wonder if its kids friendly if it just says 2 seats.

pandabearrr · September 2012

We're going to do what xinabride is doing. In the case of a couple, the reply card will say something like, "We have reserved two seats in your honor."

However, my MOH had someone actually cross out the number and add another seat, but I think most people will get the hint.

eviliciouz · September 2012

I looove that idea. We have reserved two seats in your honor sounds much much better. Thank you!

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