I swear! I am so ready for this wedding to be over sometimes!! OK, My Mom called my Grandma the other day to see if she would help her contact the ones who we are missing their RSVP's..They are on my Dads side of the family. So my Grandma calls my Mom last night with the list of people she did get ahold of..One of my uncles and my cousins. Some of you MIGHT remember when my Grandma brought over addresses when we were sending them out and she had added so many that Mom didn't ask for, including the girl who had an affair with my Dad while him and Mom were married. She is NOT related to me and I haven't seen her in years so we didn't send an invite out. Well Grandma told Mom, I left a message on Tabby's machine and my mom told her that she didn't invite Tabby and Grandma got all upset because in her mind, that is her family...OK, 2 of my uncles married sisters and my Grandma thinks that because she is a sister to my aunt, she is my family and should be invited! Confusing? Yes! Well my Grandma got upset and was literally crying on the phone with my Mom over it..Mom told her, I don't know if you know this but while we were married, he cheated on me with her...well, my grandma said, that was in the past, you have been divorced from him a long time and need to let it go! Mom thinks now she just should have kept her mouth shut over it and said OK but really? We invited only close friends and immediate family and I don't consider Tabby my family so Im just stunned, dont know whats gonna happen! We are meeting with the venue tomorrow to order our menu, pick out table decorations and chair sashes and the guest list and people responding are bouncing all over the place..I have 15 cards out of 80 invites, now that we are following up with people, its become a nightmare! Mom is afraid with all these uninvited guests we might go over our count of 100 or it might even out with the people who are not coming..I could just scream right now! What can ya do in a situation like this?
Cheryl (25) Andy (24) Newlyweds as of 8-17-12
