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WHY is FI telling me that HIS name goes first on the invitation!?! SIR, no, it doesn't! He's like, the man always goes first. And I'm like, YEAH, after you're MARRIED! UGH! So, I told him to go on any website that has invitations and see that the woman's name goes first... he won't do it. lol

What are some dumb things {WR or NWR} that you and your FI might argue about? 

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  • krimson19krimson19
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    edited December 2011
    yeah tell him he's wrong on the invite :)

    we have two shower heads in the bathroom.  he always leaved his on and pointed towards the floor so it ALWAYS wet me up in the morning if the shower curtain isn't pulled.  this irks me so bad! 

    i fuss when he drinks all the juice and leaves the pitcher in the fridge

    that's all i have right now!  LOL
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  • kittybuttonkittybutton
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    edited December 2011
    FI replaces the toilet paper but NEVER throw away the empty roll!!!
    He also leave the small bar soap in the shower and add the new one...Right now  there is about 6 little soaps..I use liquid soap so we will see how many he leave there...SUCKAH!!! LOL
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  • summerbride11summerbride11
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    edited December 2011
    He's wrong, wrong and wrong! But when I was younger it was bad luck to put the girl's name first when you write "Sally + John 2-11-09" or something like that in your notebook. Maybe that's where he's getting it from, lol!  Hubby and I used to argue over the STUPIDEST things ...I can't even begin to tell you.  Now we know eachother so well, we don't even bother!

    ...oh a big arguement used to be my hair in the bathroom...at least I brush my hair!
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  • hisSparkletthisSparklett
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    edited December 2011
    LOL, these are too funny! I can't think of any dumb arguements that we have...I'll have to come back later lol.
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  • missheaven1999missheaven1999 member
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    edited December 2011
    We argue over the remote control especially on Sundays (football) & the radio stations in the car. He is sooo into 80's Classic Rock & into old sitcoms. Not the goods ones like Good Times' or In the Heat of the Night, I'm talkin about Leave It to Beaver, All in the Family, The Andy Griffith Show. He's also into TNA Wrestling...UUGGHHH!!!
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  • krimson19krimson19
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    edited December 2011
    we also argue about me not driving.  when we go places i let him drive.  i get tired of driving sometimes!


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  • kiyamurphkiyamurph
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_dumb-arguements?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:400Discussion:ed507e14-0e1a-4d50-b3a7-0681f08bad56Post:c7ba1829-9430-4aba-8b26-a9b42d178252">Re: Dumb Arguements</a>:
    [QUOTE]<strong>FI replaces the toilet paper but NEVER throw away the empty roll!!! He also leave the small bar soap in the shower and add the new one</strong>...Right now  there is about 6 little soaps..I use liquid soap so we will see how many he leave there...SUCKAH!!! LOL
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    I swear mine does the same thing!!!  It drives me nuts, what's wrong with dudes?! 

    Another thing he does that drives me crazy is he'll go into the kitchen to get something out of the cabinet but he won't close it.  I'll go into the kitchen later and the cabinet will be wide open.  How hard is it to close the damn door!
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  • sheshedukeshesheduke member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_dumb-arguements?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:ed507e14-0e1a-4d50-b3a7-0681f08bad56Post:c7ba1829-9430-4aba-8b26-a9b42d178252">Re: Dumb Arguements</a>:
    [QUOTE]<strong>FI replaces the toilet paper but NEVER throw away the empty roll!!! He also leave the small bar soap in the shower and add the new one...Right now  there is about 6 little soaps</strong>..I use liquid soap so we will see how many he leave there...SUCKAH!!! LOL
    Posted by kittybutton[/QUOTE]

    OMG I think we live with the same person or at least they are related. So glad we don't use the same kind of soap or I would go crazy boys are just nasty.

    FI also will not put stuff back where he got it. If you got the mayo off the fridge door put it back on the door why do you have to put it next to the water. DISHES OMG If I cook the meal and all the clean all the dishes that I use while cooking why the heck cant you just wash the plate once you are done eating. What do I look like Molly Maid?

    Facial hair shavings! I know we have separate sinks but please get that hair out the sink once you are done. it makes the bathroom look nasty. Also speaking of sinks if you brush your teeth and there are globs of tooth paste left in the sink when you are done please wash the freaking sink nasty boy that just looks gross!

    Thanks for this topic Ty and tell FI that you are right about the invites :)
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  • ellone400ellone400 member
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    lol shaving in the  sink and never cleans it gross and complains why i gotta go to the kitchen to get water just  get it from the bathroom sink you dont even need a cup gross! oh and its  always its man clean hell can you do it woman clean for once!
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  • banks69banks69
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    edited December 2011
    Hey FI:  I don't have the most up-to-date dishwasher like yo Mama, so RINSE THE FOOD OFF YOUR PLATE before putting it in the sink! 

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  • 7venAfricano7venAfricano member
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    edited December 2011
    Music is our #1 dumb arguement. I listen to everything from rock, blues, old school, etc, but my listening goes in cycles, so I'm at my rock stage right now. But it doesn't matter what I'm listening to, he has an issue with it. He calls my music stupid etc because I say his music is crap- the thing is though, his music really IS crap. I listen to neo soul and such- music with substance- even my rock music has substance and meaning, where as his music is gutter crap... talkin bout killin people, selling drugs, and stickin hoes... come on now bruh, seriously? You're really going to compare Safetysuit "Stay", with a song called "Ocean Booty"?

    "SHe got that OCEAN BOOTY, when I smack her booty, it waves back" WTH?? No, you're music IS garbage, I win this arguement just because of the name of your song. And you want me to sit here and listen to thre minutes and fifty eight seconds of this? You must be on that good stuff. As long as me and my flat @ss are sitting behind the wheel you WILL SUFFER through Three Days Grace,Fall Out Boy, The Black Keys and whomever else suits my fancy. My ears are too sensitive to listen to that noise of yours...I'm telling you, his music leave my ears crying and this is what we argue about EVERY TIME we go out together. 

    You have no idea how much I break dance inside when he forgets his CDs and HAS to listen to MINE.  
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  • prettymami2prettymami2
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    edited December 2011

    LOL I have a couple of these forreal.

    Not adding a new roll to the toilet paper.

    Brushing his teeth in the sink and allowing the remains to be in the sink after he is done. (this one drives me craziest).

    After eating, leaving plates, empty wrappers, and whatever else he can on the floor. I want to ring his neck most days when he does this. 

    Oh and not to mention clothes all over the floor as well. 

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  • msapril0730msapril0730 member
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    He always drinks my personal beverages! Some days I want to come home and have a pepsi that I thought was ice cold in the fridge but come to find out he drunk it!

    Year after year we argue about the "head of household" status for the taxes! He thinks cause he's the "man" he's the only one who files head of household! We don't even technically live together on paper

    My biggest one is his soap issue! This man is too lazy to use bar soap cause he said its too much work to get a lather. When he runs out of body wash he will use our dish liquid, hand soap, or my sons Johnson & Johnson's body wash! Can you imagine going to wash your hands or dishes and have nothing to use cause he has it in the shower!

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  • NeColeMonetNeColeMonet
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    edited December 2011
    You ladies have me over here cracking up!! My hubby likes to start DIY projects and never FINISH them...right now there's plaster on the wall where he was SUPPOSED to rehang the towel rack, there are holes in the wall in my son's bedroom where he is supposed to be mounting the flat screen, I could go ON and ON.  My husband and I don't really argue. He's usually OBLIVIOUS...we have really "loud" awkward silent moments. LOL. That's what happens when a sensitive person marries an outspoken one. I have to hold my tongue and make sure my "delivery" is on point so I don't hurt feelings.
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  • sheshedukeshesheduke member
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    Oh my newest one that I just came home to is the freaking towel on the nightstand. He just got out the shower and left his towel on the night stand all wet. Boy this is wood and expensive wood at that please don't warp my furniture because you are too lazy to put your freakin towel in the closet.

    I am still paying off this furniture buddy don't mess it up before it is paid off or else my wrath is coming for you!
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  • kiyamurphkiyamurph
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_dumb-arguements?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:400Discussion:ed507e14-0e1a-4d50-b3a7-0681f08bad56Post:f905f8f7-5db9-4a95-befc-be94982ed82c">Re: Dumb Arguements</a>:
    [QUOTE]Music is our #1 dumb arguement. I listen to everything from rock, blues, old school, etc, but my listening goes in cycles, so I'm at my rock stage right now. But it doesn't matter what I'm listening to, he has an issue with it. He calls my music stupid etc because I say his music is crap- the thing is though, his music really IS crap. I listen to neo soul and such- music with substance- even my rock music has substance and meaning, where as his music is gutter crap... talkin bout killin people, selling drugs, and stickin hoes... come on now bruh, seriously? You're really going to compare Safetysuit "Stay", with a song called "Ocean Booty"? "SHe got that OCEAN BOOTY, when I smack her booty, it waves back" WTH?? No, you're music IS garbage, I win this arguement just because of the name of your song. And you want me to sit here and listen to thre minutes and fifty eight seconds of this? You must be on that good stuff. As long as me and my flat @ss are sitting behind the wheel you WILL SUFFER through Three Days Grace,Fall Out Boy, The Black Keys and whomever else suits my fancy. My ears are too sensitive to listen to that noise of yours...I'm telling you, his music leave my ears crying and this is what we argue about EVERY TIME we go out together.  You have no idea how much I break dance inside when he forgets his CDs and HAS to listen to MINE.  
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    I have to say that I love the fact that another sista likes to listen to rock music.  I love Incubus, Coldplay, Muse, etc and FI can't stand it!  I will have to say though that I'm lucky enough that he just tunes it out when I'm the one driving.
    And I feel you on that other crap.  A lot of rap is pure garbage and they talk about a whole lot of nothing.  It all sounds the same to me what with the auto-tune and all.  Don't even get me started on that!
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_dumb-arguements?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:ed507e14-0e1a-4d50-b3a7-0681f08bad56Post:a5c03dda-bddb-48e4-8d75-bfd6899b8ae4">Re: Dumb Arguements</a>:
    [QUOTE]He always drinks my personal beverages! Some days I want to come home and have a pepsi that I thought was ice cold in the fridge but come to find out he drunk it! Year after year we argue about the "head of household" status for the taxes! He thinks cause he's the "man" he's the only one who files head of household! We don't even technically live together on paper My biggest one is his soap issue! This man is too lazy to use bar soap cause he said its too much work to get a lather.<font color="#ff0000"><strong> When he runs out of body wash he will use our dish liquid, hand soap, or my sons Johnson & Johnson's body wash! Can you imagine going to wash your hands or dishes and have nothing to use cause he has it in the shower!
    </strong></font>Posted by msapril0730[/QUOTE]

    LMAO!!! Girl, FI uses our dish washing liquid for bubble bath. I be like, damn, not my Dawn! LOL! Then he complained when we went to Walmart for dish washing liquid and I couldn't pick between 2 of which one smelled the best so I got both! Hell, one can be for dishes, the other for your bubble bath! LOL!

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Dumb Arguements : I have to say that I love the fact that another sista likes to listen to rock music.  I love Incubus, Coldplay, <strong>Muse</strong>, etc and FI can't stand it!  I will have to say though that I'm lucky enough that he just tunes it out when I'm the one driving. And I feel you on that other crap.  A lot of rap is pure garbage and they talk about a whole lot of nothing.  It all sounds the same to me what with the auto-tune and all.  Don't even get me started on that!
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    Girl, I know you just did not come out and say MUSE!! O-M-G girl, I love some Muse and all because of a scene in Twilight when they were playing "Super Massive Black hole" lol. I thought I was the only person who loved me some rock lol. FI doesn't tune my music out, even though he says he can't stand it, he actually listens to it, requested for me to go back to a song I had on my rock cd and I even caught him muttering some of the words so YUP! I'm slowly brainwashing him. You'd swear that rock music was a black person's kryptonite with the way he be actin' lol. Give it about 3 months time I should have him singing the lyrics to White Stripes, "Icky Thump" <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-cool.gif" border="0" alt="Cool" title="Cool" />.


    ....oh yea, and auto tune is the devil, all I can say is, T-Pain, Michael Jackson's "PYT" remake.....T-Pain committed first degree murder on the song...I'm talkin about he ran up on it with the oozie and popped it at close range...smdh...i need to know who is signing off on these new songs now a days because, in a word, 99.9% of them are <strong><em><u>BOOTY</u></em></strong>!!
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  • 7venAfricano7venAfricano member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_dumb-arguements?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:ed507e14-0e1a-4d50-b3a7-0681f08bad56Post:f9e8ffe0-41ad-4ff0-b3c3-a1868ee5ded3">Re: Dumb Arguements</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Dumb Arguements : LMAO!!! Girl, FI uses our dish washing liquid for bubble bath. I be like, damn, not my Dawn! LOL! Then he complained when we went to Walmart for dish washing liquid and I couldn't pick between 2 of which one smelled the best so I got both! <strong>Hell, one can be for dishes, the other for your bubble bath! LOL!
    </strong>Posted by tyboyd[/QUOTE]

    That's too much!! lol
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Dumb Arguements : LMAO!!! Girl, FI uses our dish washing liquid for bubble bath. I be like, damn, not my Dawn! LOL! Then he complained when we went to Walmart for dish washing liquid and I couldn't pick between 2 of which one smelled the best so I got both! Hell, one can be for dishes, the other for your bubble bath! LOL!
    Posted by tyboyd[/QUOTE]

    That's too funny!
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