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desi2002
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Wedding Planning Drama Recap
Since my wedding is in 2 days... I just wanted to share how far I have come.
I started planning my wedding 2 years ago. At the time, my date was set for December 30, 2010. I had this whole "White Diamond Winter" theme all planned out. I was sooo excited. But things changed when I had unexpectedly gotten pregnant, so I pushed the wedding to March 2011 (with my girl Eagles!)
It was really sad when I ended up miscarrying. It was a really hard time for me, so I took a break from TK for a minute, because I was a little ashamed to tell everyone the bad news... and that because of the miscarriage, I had moved the date again... to July.
Once I was ready to come back, I put a lot of effort into a Peacock inspired event. I was having the worst luck with incorporating Peacock into the Ceremony, so I dissed that theme too. I ended up being a "Pretty in Pink" bride.
As far as vendors go... sheesh. I lost $1000 with the first venue that I booked with. They double booked my date and asked me to pick another date or forfeit. I ended up forfeiting and picking another venue just as amazing, for a waaay better price. Its about an hour drive for me, but the deal Im getting is worth it.
I recently lost my wedding planner. She has to get foot surgery this week and needs 2 weeks recovery. I was bummed, but I got my money back, so I was happy about that.
My CAKE DRAMA! The bakery that I picked has awful customer service, but the cake is AMAZING!! The owners mother told me that my cake wasn't expensive enough to travel to LA, and that they were putting more work into my cake than it was even worth. I couldn't believe it!
My dj is the best ever. He was my first vendor and has been with me through the entire process. I just talked to him today and he said he's gifting me FREE LIGHTING! I am so happy, my wedding will be amazing!
I changed dresses. The first dress I bought was pretty... but it wasn't amazing. The dress I have now is AMAZING!!
Wow, I know that was long, but I just wanted to share with you guys the stuff I was too embarrassed to share before. I felt like I was drama queen with all that stuff. LOL.
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Re: Wedding Planning Drama Recap
My Daddy and Me
You are far from a drama queen. People tend to label others as that if they complain about anything especialy brides. The issues that you had with the venue or the baker would are worth getting upset about.
What's important now is that your day is almost here. Soak it in and enjoy it.
[QUOTE]Desi, I'm so happy that things have come full circle and that you are only a few hours away from your beautiful wedding! I am sorry that you felt ashamed, but I do understand. I wish that I could have been there for you as you were for me with kind words and encouragement when I confided in you about my pregnancy and miscarriage last year. You have remained faithful through all of your trials and I am certain that God will continue to see you through all that life brings your way. Congratulations to you and your family! P.S. <strong>Do you remember our alliance on the month board with the whole mod situation...pure comedy in hindsight. ;)</strong>
Posted by eagles347[/QUOTE]
<div>Yes! LOL! How funny! Thank you so much for everything, I always know that I was always able to come to you about anything because of your honesty. I love that you are able so say how you feel, in a tactful way. I admire that about you. </div>
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[QUOTE]OMG.....Desi, I remember you going through all of this. <strong>We started on the knot about the same time</strong>. I have always admired your strength. All of the things you were going through could have broken anyone down. However, you knew God was in control and I recall you always giving him praise despite your circumstances. I'm so happy for you girl and I can't wait to see your pics and hear about your recap! Enjoy the moment my knottie friend!!!
Posted by PB-Bride2010[/QUOTE]
<div>I know! A lot of us disappeared, and the ones that stayed are considered "old school knotties" LOL. Thanks for your support these last 2 years!</div>
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Wedding Planning Drama Recap : Yes! LOL! How funny! Thank you so much for everything, I always know that I was always able to come to you about anything because of your honesty. I love that you are able so say how you feel, in a tactful way. I admire that about you.
Posted by desi2002[/QUOTE]
<div>Aww...this brought me to tears. I used to talk soooooo much, often without thinking first so this is something that I have had to work on for years. I'm so glad that you are able to view me as tactful because it is truly a practice. Please know that the feelings of admiration are mutual. You have tremendous faith and an amazing spirit and you deserve every blessing that comes your way.</div>
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