NEY Migration?

Swazzle · May 2012

Just to be clear, there is more than 1 FB group.

Peekseviltwin · May 2012

Bri said it far better than I can. But the whole post seemed to be written like it was trying to start something. And we're all kind of done with the whole argument.

SallyLou4u · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:d4032190-7d28-4ede-85c8-7782bae079c9">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NEY Migration? : Because it's like she's making melmac feel even worse that "because you're not one of the regs, they decided you don't belong". I'm not even sure what happened, but I think that post was condescending and unnecessary.
Posted by Ollie08[/QUOTE]

Did you stop to think the act of kicking her out of the group is what makes her feel like she doesnt belong?

Ollie08 · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:7acdb322-27e3-4f68-b1d7-f81d4ef36ccc">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]Just to be clear, there is more than 1 FB group.
Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]

What?! You mean I wasn't <em>invited</em> to the others?

GoldenPenguin · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:82aab9eb-f34f-4e4d-a6e9-14ab213841f4">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NEY Migration? : Did you stop to think the act of kicking her out of the group is what makes her feel like she doesnt belong?
Posted by SallyLou4u[/QUOTE]

And you are??

I'll answer my own rhetorical question. You are someone who doesn't have any idea what the dynamic is anywhere, so you can take your Judgey McJudgeypants right back to where you came from.

niknik15 · May 2012

Maybe it's because I wasn't in the FB group, but it didn't seem like she was trying to start something to me. My month board deleted people from their FB group too and I can definitely see why people who haven't been around much shouldn't be in the group.

Peaseblossom55 · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:37434d59-5375-4b98-9b3e-9c22753cdaa3">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NEY Migration? : What?! You mean I wasn't invited to the others?
Posted by Ollie08[/QUOTE]
lol... me neither..

Ollie08 · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:82aab9eb-f34f-4e4d-a6e9-14ab213841f4">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NEY Migration? : Did you stop to think the act of kicking her out of the group is what makes her feel like she doesnt belong?
Posted by SallyLou4u[/QUOTE]

Bahahaha my favorite part of you guys jumping all over my shiiiiiiiit is that I'm not even a regular participant on FB either. I don't know what happened with melmac (hell, I don't even know her real name!) and I don't know what happened to give Beth a permanent stick up her ass about all of this.

ETA: I hit post too soon, but my point is, let it go people.

leia1979 · May 2012

I would be in favor of a board that functions better than TK, but I also don't think we'd ever get any new blood there. And while some people might be okay with that, I've seen a lot of people come and go, and the new blood is what keeps NEY going.

I think some people are overreacting to Beth's comment.

SallyLou4u · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:46800ec0-d8ba-4ff1-aaa7-f1620cda011d">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NEY Migration? : And you are?? I'll answer my own rhetorical question. You are someone who doesn't have any idea what the dynamic is anywhere, so you can take your Judgey McJudgeypants right back to where you came from.
Posted by BriSox81[/QUOTE]

I posted a little a few years back and thought I would come back. I was only pointing out the obvious. I did not intend for my post to be judgmental. I would ask why you find it necessary to judge me without knowing me?

GoldenPenguin · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:3dd72936-1cd4-4c6c-9c05-6ff2d1d9d40e">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NEY Migration? : I posted a little a few years back and thought I would come back. I was only pointing out the obvious. I did not intend for my post to be judgmental. I would ask why you find it necessary to judge me without knowing me?
Posted by SallyLou4u[/QUOTE]

I'm not judging you. You came in here with SEVEN posts, telling us how we are making people feel. You posted "a little a few years back" and you come in here, guns a'blazin', telling us what we're doing wrong?? Yea, that's gonna go over well.

melmac86 · May 2012

Well, this all got a bit interesting. I guess I feel it's kind of shitty to "kick" someone out of a group after they were already invited there. I haven't been posting as long as a lot of you, but I do try to chime in and offer congrats, advice, bday wishes etc, not only out of sincerity, but also to get to know people better. I totally get not adding EVERY SINGLE PERSON that stops by to throw in their 2 cents every blue moon, but it sucks that I'm making a good effort to stick around and because I haven't been here x amount of days or whatever it may be, it means I'm automatically discluded. I get it though. I don't have hard feelings towards anyone. People have grown close here and have friendships outside of NEY. I actually appreciate Beth's honesty and it doesn't bother me at all. I feel she made a point without being a biiitch about it.

melmac86 · May 2012

Side note - 3 "i's" is enough to slip the b word in your post. 2 "i's" - not good enough. How dumb.

SallyLou4u · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:98252a11-a08a-40aa-a3cd-5d0c3877f9be">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NEY Migration? : I'm not judging you. You came in here with SEVEN posts, telling us how we are making people feel. You posted "a little a few years back" and you come in here, guns a'blazin', telling us what we're doing wrong?? Yea, that's gonna go over well.
Posted by BriSox81[/QUOTE]

I guess to you, your right and I am wrong so there is no point in even trying to speak to my defence. We cant be sunshine and rainbows all the time.

Peekseviltwin · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:e40fb79f-b887-4c8e-83ab-188ecc678232">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NEY Migration? : I guess to you, your right and I am wrong so there is no point in even trying to speak to my defence. We cant be sunshine and rainbows all the time.
Posted by SallyLou4u[/QUOTE]

I recognize your posting style and poor grammar. Methinks you're an AE.

GoldenPenguin · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:e40fb79f-b887-4c8e-83ab-188ecc678232">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NEY Migration? : I guess to you, your right and I am wrong so there is no point in even trying to speak to my defence. We cant be sunshine and rainbows all the time.
Posted by SallyLou4u[/QUOTE]

*you're
*defense

leia1979 · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:1153dc41-b912-4cb9-ae5c-2c3f6124bd4f">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NEY Migration? : *you're *defense
Posted by BriSox81[/QUOTE]

Unless you're Canadian--then "defence" is correct.

GoldenPenguin · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:78d0863a-f0fc-4231-8b2d-24fddc9f5317">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NEY Migration? : Unless you're Canadian--then "defence" is correct.
Posted by leia1979[/QUOTE]

She lives in Omaha.

Peekseviltwin · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:585537b4-1ad5-480d-986f-8881f0974769">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NEY Migration? : She lives in Omaha.
Posted by BriSox81[/QUOTE]

She could be displaced.

But I'm sticking with my AE theory.

SallyLou4u · May 2012

World English Dictionary

defence or defense (dɪˈfɛns)

— n
1.	resistance against danger, attack, or harm; protection
2.	a person or thing that provides such resistance
3.	a plea, essay, speech, etc, in support of something; vindication; justification

Elle1036 · May 2012

Holy geezballs.

I'm gone for an hour and *boom*.

GoldenPenguin · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:59c7c9dd-568f-49ef-815b-5fecab48fa2e">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]World English Dictionary defence or defense (dɪˈfɛns) — n 1. resistance against danger, attack, or harm; protection 2. a person or thing that provides such resistance 3. a plea, essay, speech, etc, in support of something; vindication; justification
Posted by SallyLou4u[/QUOTE]

I see no justification for your ineptness at the use of proper contractions. Good job though.

Swazzle · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:59c7c9dd-568f-49ef-815b-5fecab48fa2e">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]World English Dictionary defence or defense (dɪˈfɛns) — n 1. resistance against danger, attack, or harm; protection 2. a person or thing that provides such resistance 3. a plea, essay, speech, etc, in support of something; vindication; justification
Posted by SallyLou4u[/QUOTE]

<div>Thanks for the English lesson, Molly, err Sally. </div>

Ollie08 · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:f3e32c54-c023-4dde-9205-d436e28e2638">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NEY Migration? <strong>: I see no justification for your ineptness at the use of proper contractions.</strong> Good job though.
Posted by BriSox81[/QUOTE]

You know how to make me smile. I <3 you

SallyLou4u · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:254ef357-ada0-45d2-9686-4e982dd29c12">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NEY Migration? : Thanks for the English lesson, Molly, err Sally.
Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]

I only wanted to show that both were proper spellings.

csousa1 · May 2012

I'm just saying, would you look at a pool full of water that had steam coming off of it, jump in anyway, and then get mad at the water for being hot? No? Then don't poke at a sensitive topic and get mad at the backlash.

csousa1 · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:3225a3ab-f4ec-4aed-b264-28c3b9883311">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NEY Migration? : I only wanted to show that both were proper spellings.
Posted by SallyLou4u[/QUOTE]

So you agree? You think you're really Molly?

Peekseviltwin · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:a67d39a1-ea6f-4310-b20f-58d0b48300b2">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NEY Migration? : So you agree? You think you're really Molly?
Posted by csousa1[/QUOTE]

I think 15 minutes without a response gives us a pretty good confirmation.

melmac86 · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:1dd9af7a-fead-4b22-aa43-c9c6d4b272c8">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]I'm just saying, would you look at a pool full of water that had steam coming off of it, jump in anyway, and then get mad at the water for being hot? No? Then don't poke at a sensitive topic and get mad at the backlash.
Posted by csousa1[/QUOTE]

I hope you don't mean me, because I'm not mad. I was honestly just curious and because I'm not "close" with anyone here at this point, I was unaware of ongoing FB issues. I do like being here and hope that some day I'm deemed awesome enough to join a NEYG2G.

csousa1 · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_ney-migration?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4628efe5-b38a-4610-a677-d298010f25d9Post:501174a2-f3ab-4ad0-bbc0-e91790f2eaa4">Re: NEY Migration?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NEY Migration? : I hope you don't mean me, because I'm not mad. I was honestly just curious and because I'm not "close" with anyone here at this point, I was unaware of ongoing FB issues. I do like being here and hope that some day I'm deemed awesome enough to join a NEYG2G.
Posted by melmac86[/QUOTE]

No, I didn't mean you. I meant Beth. And I'm not trying to "call her out" or flame her or any of that crap, just observing that she isn't an idiot so I'm sure she knew what was going to happen. But it seems to have blown over now, so it's all good.

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