prob with moh

fyrefairie · September 2010

stop changing the title of yourpost....it isnt helping...from MOH is POS to MOH isn't excited to prob with MOH.
Eitehr tell us all we r nuts and you disagree then don't ask us
or say you're sorry for being unnecessarily snarky and lets move forward
YES we as brides would love it if everyone else were as excited for our wedding as we are...but with the exception of mayber our mothers, they're not. Some friends might be...maybe they just LOVE weddings or parties in general.
But your MOH, however close you are or aren't is busy and your wedding is far way...mines in 40 some odd days and i haven't talked to my MOH in two weeks....just texted. why? she is busy i am busy. i ambusy with work and grad school and folding stupid origami excort cards (ok i love them....im just tired of folding tonight)...she is busy visiting her borther, getting to know her new beau, working and graciously planning my shower.
your MOH went OOT for 4 days MONTHS before your wedding...i don't even know why you care....
but on a more sensitive note, i think what is really going on is that as you stated you didn't have a lifelong gal pal to pcik...and perhaps what you are missing is the anticipated girly bonding that goes with ruminating over the subtleties of floral arrangements and sequins vs glitter which no matter how wonderful your FI is, he probably isnt overly concerned about the finest details (mine sure isn't). So figure out how you meet this need. Post stuff on the boards here that you are excited about...most of us would proly love to hear, compare notes, etc about the little details...and as long as you will listen to other excited brides, i am sure they'll get excited for you too!

ashalie33 · September 2010

idk, i have regret that i gave her the title. and it hurts to know that i do have closer girlfriends than her that are willing to help anyway they can and i could have and should have given them the title.

but thanks, everyone, for your insight.

nda_roxybabe · September 2010

Seriously, your wedding isn't even until NEXT JUNE. Thats 9 months from now. Sheesh

fyrefairie · September 2010

well if yoiu have closer friends, perhaps you can ask them to be sound boards and if they are dear friends of yours they may be a little more excited than your MOH....in any event, no one's gonna be as excited as you wish they would be, it isn't there wedding and while its the frist thing on your mind they're all still focused on their own lives....maybe debt, ill family members, stress at work, or grad school....I bet if you took the time to ask your MOH how she is handling everything that she has going on and took an interest in her life, she might recipricoate with more interest in your wedding....relationships are living things that need ongoing care and maintenance

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