to invite or not?? that is the question...

Re: to invite or not?? that is the question...

• thesuninherhead member

  

  April 2010

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_invite-not-question?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:05ec5f68-fda8-4eb2-a855-b055516de3eePost:9d2c4053-8f5c-484f-b831-df22567b09e1">to invite or not?? that is the question...</a>:
  [QUOTE]I have been with my present company for quite a while and i have planned to invite all my co workers to the reception. Last month my boss hired on a new employee and she use to date my fiancé 2 years back, (it ended badly). I have been friendly with her to avoid work drama, and put the past behind. So do add her to the guest list so she doesn't feel excluded or invite her and hope her and my fiancé aren't awkward??
  <p>Posted by Shaypay[/QUOTE]</p><p> </p><p>You talk to your fiance and see what he thinks...</p>

  

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• blackfire5th

  

  April 2010

  Ditto, it's up to your FI.  Honestly, I don't think she expects an invite to your wedding.

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• tidetravel member

  

  April 2010

  She doesn't automatically get an invite.  If you decide to invite coworkers (and their SOs), send the invites to their house and keep wedding related talk to a minimum while at work.

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• Katiemahler member

  

  April 2010

  I think it's nice that you don't want her to be singled out, given the history, but if I were in her shows, I wouldn't expect an invite based on history and timing. I recommend don't invite her, weddings are for those you are close to you to celebrate and share in your special memories. 

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