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Cake in Face
Anyone watched the new VH1'La La Full Court Wedding' on Sunday ?
I am watching it online and the wedding planner made an interesting statement, that how the cake is fed on wedding day determines marriage future, she says those who throw the cake in each other's face will get divorced, she swears by it and says 'look back at history'
Thoughts ?
(we don't plan on doing that, don't want makeup messing up)
I am watching it online and the wedding planner made an interesting statement, that how the cake is fed on wedding day determines marriage future, she says those who throw the cake in each other's face will get divorced, she swears by it and says 'look back at history'
Thoughts ?
(we don't plan on doing that, don't want makeup messing up)
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Re: Cake in Face
IMO how you eat the cake has the same bearing on marital bliss as whether or not it rains on your wedding day.
Just call me "Brothel"
And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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I think attitude has more bearing on the relationship than anything else. We laughed about it, both knowing it was coming, but if I knew it would really upset him then I wouldn't have. I think about that when I see episodes of Bridezillas. The way the brides treat their FIs says more than what they do or don't do at the wedding.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Cake in Face : you mean cake won't make me live longer?!? Damn...
Posted by rhonwynv[/QUOTE]
This makes me happy
But pre-planned? Doubtful.
Do not mess in the affairs of dinosaurs because you are crunchy and taste good with ketchup.
I love you Missy. Even though you are not smart enough to take online quizzes to find out really important information. ~cew
[QUOTE]It could be causal, in that <strong>if one partner does it to the other without party B being aware it's going to happen, it may be a sign of a lack of respect on party A's part</strong>. Which, in turn could lead to divorce down the road. But pre-planned? Doubtful.
Posted by missy68[/QUOTE]
But in this case I'd still say the cake had nothing to do with it. That just boils down to lack of respect.
Just call me "Brothel"
And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
my read shelf:
Do not mess in the affairs of dinosaurs because you are crunchy and taste good with ketchup.
I love you Missy. Even though you are not smart enough to take online quizzes to find out really important information. ~cew
Married in Vegas - June 2011
However If one person's like "Seriously, I will be really upset if you smash cake in my face" and the other person does it anyway, I think it's more or less a [very public] sign of how little mutual respect there is. And yeah, I'll say a marriage is "doomed" if there's no mutual respect.
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[QUOTE]I am not spending $150 on professional make-up to have cake smashed in my face. If it happens, then I'm pretty sure I'll be proving this VH1 chick right.
Posted by Celles[/QUOTE]
Ha. Yes. This was my thought exactly.
We fed eachother cakes with our forks and I didn't even think about until everyone said something. Later people kept going "Um, aren't you supposed to feed it with your fingers?" Our cake cutting was also really awkward because we ate it and then smiled I was like "Okay what now??"
Do not mess in the affairs of dinosaurs because you are crunchy and taste good with ketchup.
I love you Missy. Even though you are not smart enough to take online quizzes to find out really important information. ~cew
I must say I dont like the practice because I think it's kind of rude and messy. But to each there own. My DH's daughter and her husband did a little cute cake on the nose thing,which is fine for them. And it was so them.
Being that this is my third, and I've never smashed cake with any of my husbands, current or past I think it speaks for itself.
[QUOTE]I think if both parties are on board, I really don't think that's a "tell tale sign" that a couple won't make it. If it's all in good fun and everybody's happy, then what could possibly be the harm? However If one person's like "Seriously, I will be really upset if you smash cake in my face" and the other person does it anyway, I think it's more or less a [very public] sign of how little mutual respect there is. And yeah, I'll say a marriage is "doomed" if there's no mutual respect.
Posted by megk8oz[/QUOTE]
Ditto this
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Cake in Face : "She picked teal for her bridesmaid dresses. Teal. The color of gangreen!". Haha! Love that movie.
Posted by mica001[/QUOTE]
Yay, someone else got it!
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