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Wedding Reception Forum
AngelaReneeClaire
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What do you think of our ideas?
My FI and I have gone back and forth and through so many different ideas for our reception, but I think we might have come up with one we finally like and that seems to fit our budget fairly well. One of my main concerns is that our guests might get bored quickly, which I definitely do not want. So what do you think?
Our wedding is in August, and we'd like an indoor/outdoor reception. Our ceremony will be outdoor. We have about 150 guests.
Since our budget is a little tight, we're opting for a dessert reception. So it'll start at about 8.
For dessert, we'll do make-your-own sundaes with lots of toppings, as well as brownies and cheese cake.
Our colors are purple and green, so we're doing mint chocolate chip (green), vanilla (classic), and raspberry sorbet (purple, also for the lactose intolerant). I thought it could be fun to do floats for the toasts, as well.
I figure we should also have some cheese and crackers and stuff like that, so people don't get too sugared out.
For entertainment, we'd like to do a game night sort of thing. Have lots of board games and outdoor games available. Like cornhole, croquet, badminton, etc. His family loves euchre, my family loves RISK, so we'll definitely have those. Plus lots of other board game options.
We also both love video games, so FI suggested having a separate room with gaming consoles set up. I'm a little hesitant about that one, but what do you think?
We also both love video games, so FI suggested having a separate room with gaming consoles set up. I'm a little hesitant about that one, but what do you think?
We'd also like sparklers and fireworks for our exit.
That's about alll we have so far. What do you think?
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Re: What do you think of our ideas?
[QUOTE]I like the ideas for a dessert reception. Maybe add a veggie tray and/or sausages and cheese if you can. <strong>I wouldn't care for the games. It sounds like a kid's birthday to me.</strong>
Posted by JaneAustensGhost[/QUOTE]
<div>Alright, I could see that. What would you rather do, then?</div><div>We're kinda steering away from dancing, because we feel like it's usually awkward or forced, unless there's alcohol, lol. But our reception will most likely be dry. We're more interested in enjoying each other's company and having good conversation.</div>
Adults like to mingle and chat. I would think of the games more as decoration for the main event (chatting, catching up) than as the focal point of the reception. Does that make sense?
Your dessert options sound lovely.
[QUOTE]I like the ideas for a dessert reception. Maybe add a veggie tray and/or sausages and cheese if you can. I wouldn't care for the games. It sounds like a kid's birthday to me.
Posted by JaneAustensGhost[/QUOTE]
I have to agree with this. I like the photobooth idea. Maybe have music in the background for people that want to dance?
i'm not too much into the game thing at weddings but i dont see an issue with some lawn games.
i would make the reception last about 2 hours max.
and i have a bit of an issue with the fireworks. if you can afford those then you can afford more food. you also have to check your local ordinances about those. many dont allow them.
I also don't think the games are a good idea. I agree that the organization of this sounds like a birthday party and will be sort of cheezy. I guess it's fine to put out a checker board or somethign like that, but the rest of it will seem more forced than dancing, in my opinion.
I think having some background music on an ipod, the snacks, desserts and mingling will be fine. But, agree with PPs, expect your reception to last 2 hours or less. Dry, non dancing weddings just tend to be short. Nothing wrong with that, it's just a fact.
Websites/blogs where our wedding has been featured:
http://www.dapperq.com/2013/11/a-very-dapper-wedding/
http://www.onabicyclebuiltfortwo.com/2013/10/wedding-christina-g.html
http://4realequalityweddings.com/2014/05/16/g-christina/
Here is a possible fun idea for evening event, check out Oriental Trading to see all the cool glow neclaces & toys they have. Maybe they will have something that will add to your theme.
[QUOTE]There are groups that really do play a lot of games and really enjoy them. Cards are a HUGE part of my family reunions (both immediate family and extended family). Board games are also big and I regularly have game nights with friends. If you're like that having games/cards can be a fun way to socialize without alcohol/dancing. Not everyone likes that kind of atmosphere, but if most all your friends/family do then BYALL MEANS have a wedding that'll make you happy.
Posted by anssett[/QUOTE]
<div>Exactly! Thanks for the support, I appreciate it! </div><div>Like I said before, both of our families enjoy games. It's a tradition in FI's family to play multiple games of Euchre at almost every family gathering. And whenever my whole family gets togther, we ususally end up with a board game or two out. That's what made it seem like a good idea in the first place.</div>
The games? Well, you got a mixed reaction already. They're good for an informal get-together or a family reunion, but at a wedding, they might seem too juvenile. So I guess that would depend on how formal your wedding is, who is coming, whether they'd just prefer to mingle and chat, and so on.
For the record, we love games. We often have parties with pictionary, scrabble, and other board/video games. Our annual christmas party always has a group playing dominos or pictionary at the table and another group playing with dance dance revolution on TV. So, I totally get it. In my personal opinion though, the events should match the formality of the day. You are getting married. It's a big deal. Mingling, socializing with your family and friends and allowing them the time and space to catch up with each other, is activity enough for me.
Websites/blogs where our wedding has been featured:
http://www.dapperq.com/2013/11/a-very-dapper-wedding/
http://www.onabicyclebuiltfortwo.com/2013/10/wedding-christina-g.html
http://4realequalityweddings.com/2014/05/16/g-christina/
[QUOTE]The games would be fine with me. I'd enjoy that. I had a backyard wedding with outdoor games myself, and the guests loved it. I'm fine with no alcohol at a wedding. I would recommend more ice cream choices, and not worry about matching the wedding colors. I wouldn't be able to eat the mint chocolate chip (allergic to chocolate) or the raspberry unless it was real raspberry (allergic to red food coloring) which would limit me to the plain vanilla. If you've got guests with food allergies or migraine history, please offer a full sundae bar. :) What about making it a backyard barbecue? A knottie went to Costco and bought fixings for hotdogs, potato salad, beans and chips, and fed her guests for $4 per person. My wedding cost less than a thousand dollars. Dress from David's Bridal - $99 Silk shirt and pants for him, bought on clearance after Christmas Table and chair rental - $200 Drinks in iced party tubs - $80 Partyware and tiki torches, Party City - $85 Barbecue from local restaurant - just under $500 satin and lace album, eBay - $5 Music, CDs we mixed ourselves - $0 Flowers, growing out of the ground - $0 We went to Kinko's and bought some pretty stationery (lesss than $5) and selected a nice font on the printer. We invited everyone to a "backyard barbecue in celebration of our marriage" with "shoes optional" at the bottom to indicate it was super-informal. The wedding party were his kids, in their own clothes and barefoot. We set up the volleyball and croquet sets. The guests loved the casual, informal atmosphere and it was a great party.
Posted by RetreadBride[/QUOTE]
<div>Even coming from a drinking partying type crowd I would much prefer ^this type of reception (or even a dessert/light snack reception) than attending a dessert reception at 8:30pm.</div><div>
</div><div>IDK, 8:30 is dinner time of me, I'm not really a dessert person or board games. I don't think your plans are bad, just NMS. I would prefer to attend a shorter, few hour reception early in the day.</div>
What day of the week are you planning your wedding for? I think that can also be a deciding factor as far as time is concerned!
I personally love the idea of outdoor games. With my mom's family, we play cornhole until we can't see what we're trying to hit anymore! With my dad's family, card games are how we socialize, so I would definitely recommend having cards available. One of my cousins even gave out decks of cards as wedding favors, which we were all eccstatic about, even though we ended up spending the most of the night drinking and dancing.