this is totally random, just wondered what others think. So I read the article about the 12 things your guests want at your wedding. the article itself, well... some things made more sense than others. But what got me was the comments where girls are fighting over what is good taste and what is not when it comes to certain aspects of a wedding. Like having a registry or an open bar. Sometimes I feel like we're being spoon fed attitudes and opinions...and it has created this strange expectation in some people. For example, several people said that without a doubt it is disrespectful not to serve alcohol at the wedding. And I'm just confused. I'm having a dry wedding just because it is the natural way in our family. All parties are dry with us. No, we're not uptight or hating our guests, it's just not something we typically do. And I can't even imagine that someone would be offended in my circle over something like that. I feel a little shatered inside because it feels like many are so tied up by these random attitudes from potential guests... I always thought it was an honor to be invited to someones wedding. Does anyone else feel like the whole thing is getting out of hand with the growing sense of entitlement in the society?
