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I have the best mom ever

I can't believe all the crazy horror stories people have on here about their mothers or future MILs. My MIL is just happy her son is getting married, and I've been waiting for my mom to go crazy with wedding plans. Now that it's getting down to the wire, she started getting pushier (and she likes to get her way).

So last night we were arguing over how to do the first dance and cake cutting. She had this weird idea to cut the cake right after FI and I's first dance, before people had even finished getting their food. I wanted it differently, she finally said, 'ok, you know what? It's your day, let's do it your way.' And that was the end of that.

My mom giving up control, it's a 'hell has frozen over' kind of thing. She's my best friend and probably one of the coolest moms you'll ever meet (ex. she gave me an awesome lingerie set for 'your special honeymoon time'), but I have to admit, I thought she'd fight harder to plan the wedding herself or something.

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  • I'm really glad my mom has never given me lingerie. I don't want her to think about me having sex, and I don't want to think about her thinking about me having sex.

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  • My mom and MIL are the same way. So lucky!
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  • My mom got it all out during my sisters wedding so she is pretty laid back about my stuff.  His mom is really cool too.  She doesnt really have any opinions, she just like to hear about what I have decided on.  She doesnt have a daughter so this is new for her.
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  • I don't think it's weird that her mom gave her lingerie.  My husband's dad gave him a butt plug for the wedding night, so it's kind of the same thing.
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_mom-ever?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:b3246c6f-ee60-41e1-af5a-3f399a0581baPost:2052e93c-4882-446e-bd8d-e03f114af1f0">Re: I have the best mom ever</a>:
    [QUOTE]My mom got it all out during my sisters wedding so she is pretty laid back about my stuff.  His mom is really cool too.  She doesnt really have any opinions, she just like to hear about what I have decided on.  She doesnt have a daughter so this is new for her.
    Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]

    Oh, my FMIL will go crazy with her daughter's wedding. My soon to be SIL is a major girly girl and will definitely go all out, and her mom will be right there planning (unless she's marrying the guy she's with now, no one likes him). But FMIL knows I'm pretty laid back and have my own style, so she just asks what she can to do help and that's it.
  • My mom got talked out of a few things for her wedding, something she has never let go and always regretted.  So now, whenever I ask her opinion, she tells me and then goes "but its your day!!!"  I've told her she is my mom and I ask because I want to know, but I think she is pretty much the sweetest.

    FMIL is cuh-rah-zee though.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_mom-ever?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:b3246c6f-ee60-41e1-af5a-3f399a0581baPost:096fa9df-ff26-453f-8cb4-79847f4ef800">Re: I have the best mom ever</a>:
    [QUOTE]I don't think it's weird that her mom gave her lingerie.  My husband's dad gave him a butt plug for the wedding night, so it's kind of the same thing.
    Posted by _Fenton[/QUOTE]


    This literally made me choke on my lunch! HILARIOUS!
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