SO I've been going over this in my head a bit and I'm a tad hesitant on the whole bridal shower situation.. I feel like I have a kind of, strange family situation..
I'm an only child, my parents are divorced and my bridesmaids are pretty much spread all over the midwest. I have two cousins getting married the same year as me, and their mother is my only aunt, and I certainly wouldn't expect her to pay for/host a shower for me. And, to be quite honest, the whole idea of the shower just doesn't really appeal to me. I've got a fair amount of friends/relatives, but none of them really know eachother, and there's a little bad blood floating around in my family.
My question here is, since I dont have this huge group of people that are dying to throw me a shower, and a weird family situation, is it OK to just nix the bridal shower? Its honestly not my thing, and I think the whole day would just feel a smidge awkward.
Please let me know if you have alternatives or advice. Thanks.
Re: i just..dont want a Shower, is that terrible?
(Some people may have different opinions but from lurking around I think I found out that its not that out of the question that your mother host it.)
With that said:
If you don't want a shower I think its fine to not have one they are certainly not required by any means.
So Bridgbo you're not alone, I think I'm going to nix the idea too.
and yea, Sweetie, thats just not cool for YOU to fund your own party. Maybe she's got the best intentions, but yea, certainly not your deal. Its just another thing that is "supposed" to be done. I totally enjoy going to showers, and I've always had a nice time and I am in NO WAY shape or form looking down or critsizing people's choice to have a shower, especially when the bride has a big group of friends and happy family to have at the party. But some of us just aren't that lucky to have everyone where they need to be in the same place, so, I guess it might just go the way side of, "meh, no worries about the shower" kind of a deal.
Its good to hear I wont be some crazy chick for not requesting a party...