Grudges: I hold em'
Soooo are you holding any grudges? If so, what is it?
During our wedding dinner, J accidentally spilled butter on his brother C's shirt (C was a GM). J does not get along very good with C's girlfriend (nobody does actually but that is another story) C's girlfriend had a major meltdown about the butter in the middle of our dinner. Now you have to understand we didn't have a DJ or anything, there were just 18 of us stuffing our faces and talking so the room was very quiet. C's girlfriend stands up and screams: "J you are such an ungrateful $@#^&*! That shirt was $40.00 and you ruined it." She screamed a bunch of other profanities and then dramatically left the restaurant. I wanted to die. It was SO embarrassing. Who behaves that way at a wedding dinner - in Jamaica of all places!? Worst of all? My boss came out for the wedding and he must think I hangout with a pretty trashy crowd (I don't, that trash just happens to be dating H's childhood friend).
Soooo yeah I'm still holding a grudge against her because she sucks and embarrassed me.
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Re: Grudges: I hold em'
I don't think I'm holding any grudges, but wanted to let you know that that was pretty sucky of GM's GF to lose her shiit like that.
H's uncle brought him a joint as a wedding present.
Those are just the wedding related ones. I'm sure if I think about it, I have plenty of NWR grudges. I, too, am a grudge holder.
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[QUOTE]I can't think of any specific grudges that I hold (at least not off the top of my head, anyway), and I'm usually pretty laid back and give people 2nd (and 3rd and 4th) chances, but once I determine that I don't like you, it's difficult to make it back to my good side. There are few people that I truly dislike, but those few, I despise them.
Posted by cengle[/QUOTE]
I'm with you. I rarely hold grudges. And there are only a handful of people I hate - all people that I work with cause they are immature jerks.
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My father (her brother) is also holding the very same grudge.
[QUOTE]I can't think of any specific grudges that I hold (at least not off the top of my head, anyway), and I'm usually pretty laid back and give people 2nd (and 3rd and 4th) chances, but once I determine that I don't like you, it's difficult to make it back to my good side. There are few people that I truly dislike, but those few, I despise them.
Posted by cengle[/QUOTE]
I'm basically like this too. But just because I give someone chances doesn't mean I TOTALLY forget about their past discretions. Like, currently my friend has borrowed a rather expensive feather bed. She tends to not return things, mostly because she misplaces them, and I now regret lending it to her. But oh well. We'll see what happens.
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[QUOTE]I hold a grudge against FI's ex-girlfriend. There, I said it. She still talks to FI's family and when we see her out in public she is usually drunk and acting like a fool but will go back and tell FMIL things I didn't actually do. So yeah, I hate her.
Posted by aleighk1[/QUOTE]
Ugh, that sucks. I lucked out and never have to see Lucas's ex because she's in TX and even if we visit his family, I doubt I'll ever run into her. His family hated her anyway, so it's not like there's still contact.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Grudges: I hold em' : Ugh, that sucks. I lucked out and never have to see Lucas's ex because she's in TX and even if we visit his family, I doubt I'll ever run into her. His family hated her anyway, so it's not like there's still contact.
Posted by mkrupar[/QUOTE]
My husband's ex lives near my office, BUT his family also hated her. He invited all their friends from college to the wedding, but not her, thank god.
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Anyway, grudges: I am still really, really pissed at my brother and his wife for the way they reacted when I asked them not to come to the wedding. I knew I was being hurtful, I knew they were going to be hurt & upset, but I'd hoped we could discuss it like adults. It was a fucking nightmare.
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My entire family held a grudge against my Uncle's wife after he died. She freaked out when he died unexpectedly, auctioned off their home, the home he bought for his parents to live in, his farm, and everything he owned. She packed everything up and moved to Michigan.
It was five years after his death before I finally googled her and buried the hatchet.
Some of the family members are still mad. She said some hateful things before she bailed.
It was a full year before I told any of my family members that I called her.
[QUOTE]Veg - she's a PITA. She seems (and this is my un-trained opinion) to get all of her self worth/self-esteem from whether or not people demonstrate they love her ... in whichever way she's dreamed up in her head that they need to do it. If H doesn't call her, she calls him and cries to him how he doesn't call b/c he doesn't love her. If we go over for dinner and don't stay long afterward, it's cause we "just come for the food and we don't really love her" (um... or we have to work in the morning, and left the dog at home?) At one point during the planning process she complained to H that she felt like "just another guest" - and I tried to involve her in some stuff, but we have totally different tastes, and I was working 2 jobs and planning a wedding so I did a lot of stuff alone at 2 in the morning.. The day of, she came to the salon with all the girls and my mom, but once the guys showed up, she went down by H, and I heard it was because "she didn't think I WANTED her upstairs with me" - um... because I wasn't gushing over her on MY wedding day?? WTF MIL. - so the random videographer was just icing on the cake at that point.
Posted by Loopyseven[/QUOTE]
Okay, so yeah, she's BSC. Luckily my FMIL is exceedingly laid back (well, lazy is a better description). I love her to death, but she is one of the laziest people I know. I suppose it's a good counterbalance to my own mother, who is BSC herself.
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[QUOTE]Wedding-related, I'm still mad that SMIL couldn't seem to smile for a single wedding photo. I feel like she ruined any she was in.
Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE]
<div>FI's family never smiles in pictures. I'm nervous about how mine are going to look with them looking all pissed off.</div>
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Grudges: I hold em' : FI's family never smiles in pictures. I'm nervous about how mine are going to look with them looking all pissed off.
Posted by aleighk1[/QUOTE]
<div>I haven't seen my pro pics yet, but I'm scared that in my stress and aggravation over random videographer lady (see initial grudge post above) that I am going to look pissed off in all the family shots from our wedding.</div>
[QUOTE]Veggie - My aim was to bring dirty thoughts to your head :) J/K. I can type more letters.
Posted by Loopyseven[/QUOTE]
Oh, I don't care. I just found myself reading "Vag"..... Doh, no "Veg", as in she's talking to me.
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H is definitely holding more of a grudge than me, but I still don't understand why he had to pick THAT DAY to be a gigantic prick.
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