Good evening Knotties !!! Well my experience on here has been very entertaining to say the least . i thought that I would clear the air and maybe the confusion would stop and this can turn out to be a positive experience after all. i originally posted on the " Not engaged yet board " not knowing that , that wasn't the right place to make my post . i am engaged to my FI of 2.5 years , but I haven't received my ring as of yet. I wanted us to set a date without sounding like i was pressuring him . Long story short some of the comments threw me for a loop sort of speak . I was only asking how to go about it without sounding like a nag . I can talk to him about everything and this is a subject that i considered "delicate" and wanted to approach it the right way . I then sat down and realized that I already knew how to go about it . I talked it over with him and we set a date ,hence the title of my second post .My last post was directed to the women who insulted me and wasn't me whining or telling on them . I just wanted advice and a got more than what I bargained for . I'm not looking for sympathy at all just understanding . This was a learning experience . And next time I know what I should and should not keep to myself.