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May 2013 Weddings
Carson386
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May 2013 Brides Siggy Challenge: Cake
Bridezilla is now BM-Zilla!-Vent
I was the MOH in a wedding last year. She picked the dress before asking about any budget (it was $450 plus alterations). I told her I couldn't afford it so she offered to help pay for it which was very generous. When it came time for hair & make up, I was told to have my hair done by a certain person and she knew what it was supposed to look like, and this woman would also do my make up and my nails ($300 after all of that). I told her I couldn't afford it so she said she would do it as my wedding gift, whatever. Now she is a BM in my wedding and expecting me to pay for her dress, shoes, hair, nails, and make up... really?! She has also told me what she wants for a gift, a $200 necklace.
For those of you that read before about the BM that kept my bracelet that was in my family, this is her. I was trying to let it go and be nice and continue to let her be in the wedding but she is really pushing my buttons!
For those of you that read before about the BM that kept my bracelet that was in my family, this is her. I was trying to let it go and be nice and continue to let her be in the wedding but she is really pushing my buttons!
May 2013 Brides Siggy Challenge: Cake
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Re: Bridezilla is now BM-Zilla!-Vent
I think that if she expected you to have those things done, she should pay for them without asking for anything in return. If you are not expecting your girls to get their hair, nails, and make up done a certain way, you shouldn't have to pay for it if you don't feel comfotable with that.
And to just come out and say she wants a $200 necklace as a gift is just plain rude. What if that is not in your budget? I'm spending maybe $50-75 on each girl... I couldn't imagine $200, especially for someone who is acting this way. (This situation got me a little upset... lol, sorry!)
[QUOTE]Did you get your bracelet back? IMO, you need to kick her to the curb. She's doing nothing but causing drama.
Posted by Pnutbutr[/QUOTE]
Nope! I called her again about it and she said she would get it back to me, and she even apoligized, then she called the next day to have her 11 year old son tell me that she gave it back to me before they moved. I'm def considering kickign her out at this point! Against etiquette but, I don't actually care at this point.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Bridezilla is now BM-Zilla!-Vent : [QUOTE ]Did you get your bracelet back? IMO, you need to kick her to the curb. She's doing nothing but causing drama. :( Posted by Pnutbutr[/QUOTE] Nope! I called her again about it and she said she would get it back to me, and she even apoligized, then she called the next day to have her 11 year old son tell me that she gave it back to me before they moved. I'm def considering kickign her out at this point! Against etiquette but, I don't actually care at this point.
Posted by Carson386[/QUOTE]
Omg...so not only is she bitchy, but a thief as well? Kick her out of your life!
[QUOTE]Please explain to me, why is this woman in your bridal party?
Posted by charbakes[/QUOTE]
She was one of my best friends until recently. I figured that for her wedding, she was just a bridezilla and it would pass, which that did. I asked her to be in the wedding party as a BM, and she was really excited. After I had already asked her to be a BM, I asked about the bracelet that she never returned. I haven't kicked her out because I feel like the worst person in the world if I do. I know it's not completely against etiquette in this case, but I think I would still feel like the worst person ever.