FB RSVP?

microkelly · July 2010

FI's aunt just wrote on his wall to count on her and her best friend coming to the wedding. We didn't invite her with a guest and the church is really small as is our reception budget. I don't mind an extra if it it allows once the RSVPs come in. Is it ok to tell her "We cut things pretty tight and did not plan on you bringing a guest. We'd really like to accomadate you but we need to see how the #s look when the RSVPs come in".

salt78 · July 2010

Perfectly ok. You're on a budget and she's just going to have to respect that.

nnoble4 · July 2010

As long as you only addressed the invitation to her, then you have every right to say that. If you do not mind having her bring a guest if room allows, let her know your situation. She should understand.

KentuckyKate · July 2010

I think it's a fine response, but I would maybe call her instead of FBing her back.

JennaV26 · July 2010

Saying that is fine, but definitely call her instead of FBing.

I was in a situation like this where 2 people RSVPed with a guest early in the process and I told them the same thing, that I would like to accomodate their guest, but I would have to see how the numbers turned out by the RSVP deadline. They were understanding.

mysticl · July 2010

Perfect response.

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