I have an odd situation and i'm not sure what to do about it. My hubby and I eloped on sept 18th of last year with plans to do a wedding for our one year anniversary. Well we're two months from our anniversary and we dont have a thing planned. Our best man passed away, we can't depend on the other ones, i can't get the maid of honor and bridesmaid into dresses they both like that i can afford to buy because i know they can't, i had to cancel my layaway on the dress... its just been disasterous. and to beat it all whenever we mention wedding everyone is like, why are you doing a wedding, you're already married. My husband and I both really want a wedding. FOr him its hi sfirst marriage and for me a second change to get the wedding i want. Why is it we feel like no one cares about us. No one seems to share in the joy that we love each other and want to share it with everyone else. shoudl we even bother having a wedding if no one is going to show up?