Not sure if this is the "correct" place to post...Somewhat new here, and I haven't gotten up the courage to post because a lot of responses don't seem very friendly. BUT here goes. I have been engaged to my fiance for almost two years now and we will be married 9/26/09. I was relatively close with his mother, aunt, and grandmother (I worked for his aunt and that's how I met him). I quit my job for his aunt, which was part time dog bathing job, and I quit it in order to have time for a really great internship. Things got bitter towards me pretty quickly: 1)his aunt told everyone I quit b/c she wouldn't let me gossip at work (NOT my thing) 2) His family decided that I wasn't good enough for him b/c I'm not the housewife type and I hate cooking and cleaning. 3) okay there's a lot more but I don't want to waste everyone's time!! For awhile that was it, but then his grandmother thought she was very ill so she told my fiance that he "better not marry that girl" and told his uncle that I'm not good enough for him. Obviously I'm extremely upset. I also know I can't control how she feels about me and I will get over. My main problem is that I feel extremely uncomfortable having a woman come to our wedding that does not respect or support us. The marriage is what is important to me, not the wedding and I only want people there that love and support us as a couple. Is there anything I can do, or is this just a situation where I need to suck it up? Sorry for the long, bitching post.