I flame anyone who hangs around here while depressed. You know the nature of the boards. There are going to be people that like you, people that hate you, people that tolerate you, and people that ignore you. If you're not ok with that, then find a new board.
If there are a few people that you like and "know" well, then get their emails or PM them. Don't use the boards as an excuse to wallow in your depression.
Actually I also said I fellt bad for Kiki and that I understood what she was going through. A few of us night knotties said that in reponse to the lame fucking Kiki AE.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-31?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f9434da8-b9e6-471f-b066-de75954b5db8Post:a0f42504-c413-4138-b9b6-09f3e4b9a5d4">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Actually, I think it was Sofla or AAW. Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]
I'm pretty sure it was the UNDIIS thing. E, Whitson, and Jillnumbers (IIRC) were the main players in that one. Not that it really matters either way.
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I haven't been around enough to comment on p2, but I think telling someone that this board "isnt' a good fit" for someone else is pretty lame. She can post wherever the hell she wants to post and I think there are a lot of people who would disagree that it's a bad "fit."
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<div>Yes. It's gross. You are an adorable girl and those zit strips are ruining your face.</div>
I like the bluntness of E, but I'm not annoyed with some people choosing to be nice if that's what they want to do. I think the only people it would bother are the ones who feel bad about being mean when no one else is doing it, or people who don't want to be called out about it. If you feel bad about being mean when other people are being nice, then maybe you shouldn't be mean in the first place (that's a general "you" not any one person). If you don't want to take other people's unfortunate circumstances into consideration, no one is telling you you have to, but other people should be able to make their own decisions about it. Why does it have to be "we"?
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<div>I disagree with this. Telling someone that is an opinion and we are all allowed to have them. It's not like she said "get the eff out of here no one likes you". </div>
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yep ... totally agree.
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It hides your pretty face and duck face is never cool.
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I also flame play for sticking around wedding message boards after her engagement is broken off. Especially a board where she didn't have a lot of fans. But spending time "with" people are are all married, engaged or in serious relationships is not healthy, and not going to help her move on.
Oh I totally forgot...Andy...did you email me on my wedding website the other week? Because someone sent me a pretty nasty message and it was under your screenname.
As if you would just admit it. I don't even know why I'm bothering.
I've noticed heels has changed lately. She's very unpredictable in her posting tones and what not around here lately. I am trying to keep up, but I can't. She's nice to me though, so I suppose I shouldn't biitch. MrsE used to be like that though - hot and cold, just sayin'.
At least P2 is consistantly biitchy. Not to me though, so again, I shouldn't complain.
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Yes, this. Thank you, that is what I tried to say at least a half a dozen times yesterday, but it wasn't coming out nearly as well as you put it.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-31?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f9434da8-b9e6-471f-b066-de75954b5db8Post:82d45966-3e56-4ce2-b6ae-f020cd858646">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]I've noticed heels has changed lately. She's very unpredictable in her posting tones and what not around here lately. I am trying to keep up, but I can't. Posted by mandysmear[/QUOTE]
<div>This this this this this. Same with Ricks. </div>
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Oh goodness.
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Yeah, it was the UnDis thing. That was back when I first joined and was trying to be funny/snarky and totally failed. Then E showed up and went nuts on the woman for having HIV and having a child, and still wanting to have more.
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This times a bazillion.
If I wanted to hear the pitter-patter of little feet, I'd put shoes on the cat.
I flame Mizri in for posting WAY too much info about her sex life, having her fiance post as back up to her under his own account, making up an AE when we started to ignore her and then popping up in threads a few days later as if she was not acting like a completely trashy pyscho.
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Haha fair enough. <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-wink.gif" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" /> I promise I won't tell you to abort your unborn babes, and I will never blackmail you, Mandy. Even though I know what you did last summer . ::raises eyebrow::
I exfoliate and take care of my skin really well, but can't get FI to take care of his and from time to time he gets some pretty bad black heads. It was my way to getting him to give skin care a try.
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If there are a few people that you like and "know" well, then get their emails or PM them. Don't use the boards as an excuse to wallow in your depression.
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Actually, I think it was Sofla or AAW.
Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]
I'm pretty sure it was the UNDIIS thing. E, Whitson, and Jillnumbers (IIRC) were the main players in that one. Not that it really matters either way.
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[QUOTE]I flame whoever has their sig picture as she and her FI/DH with those Biore blackhead nose strips on. It's gross and it bugs me. It's not cute.
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I was flamed! Should I change it? Is it that gross?
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I was flamed! Should I change it? Is it that gross?
Posted by amlaplante[/QUOTE]
<div>Yes. It's gross. You are an adorable girl and those zit strips are ruining your face.</div>
If you don't want to take other people's unfortunate circumstances into consideration, no one is telling you you have to, but other people should be able to make their own decisions about it. Why does it have to be "we"?
[QUOTE]but I think telling someone that this board "isnt' a good fit" for someone else is pretty lame. She can post wherever the hell she wants to post
Posted by tlv204[/QUOTE]
<div>I disagree with this. Telling someone that is an opinion and we are all allowed to have them. It's not like she said "get the eff out of here no one likes you". </div>
[QUOTE]I haven't been around enough to comment on p2, but I think telling someone that this board "isnt' a good fit" for someone else is pretty lame. She can post wherever the hell she wants to post and I think there are a lot of people who would disagree that it's a bad "fit."
Posted by tlv204[/QUOTE]
yep ... totally agree.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I was flamed! Should I change it? Is it that gross?
Posted by amlaplante[/QUOTE]
It hides your pretty face and duck face is never cool.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Yes. It's gross. You are an adorable girl and those zit strips are ruining your face.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]
I thought it might be good for a laugh, but I see your point.
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[QUOTE]I haven't been around enough to comment on p2, but I think telling someone that this board "isnt' a good fit" for someone else is pretty lame. She can post wherever the hell she wants to post and I think there are a lot of people who would disagree that it's a bad "fit."
Posted by tlv204[/QUOTE]
I also agree.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I was flamed! Should I change it? Is it that gross?
Posted by amlaplante[/QUOTE]
You and your sweetie are kinda cute - I bet you have some way cuter pics. I don't think its gross though. Just not your best.
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The dual duck faces aren't making it any better.
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I've noticed heels has changed lately. She's very unpredictable in her posting tones and what not around here lately. I am trying to keep up, but I can't. She's nice to me though, so I suppose I shouldn't biitch. MrsE used to be like that though - hot and cold, just sayin'.
At least P2 is consistantly biitchy. Not to me though, so again, I shouldn't complain.
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[QUOTE]I like the bluntness of E, but I'm not annoyed with some people choosing to be nice if that's what they want to do. I think the only people it would bother are the ones who feel bad about being mean when no one else is doing it, or people who don't want to be called out about it. If you feel bad about being mean when other people are being nice, then maybe you shouldn't be mean in the first place (that's a general "you" not any one person). <strong>If you don't want to take other people's unfortunate circumstances into consideration, no one is telling you you have to, but other people should be able to make their own decisions about it. Why does it have to be "we"?</strong>
Posted by stellabbella129[/QUOTE]
Yes, this. Thank you, that is what I tried to say at least a half a dozen times yesterday, but it wasn't coming out nearly as well as you put it.
[QUOTE]I've noticed heels has changed lately. She's very unpredictable in her posting tones and what not around here lately. I am trying to keep up, but I can't.
Posted by mandysmear[/QUOTE]
<div>This this this this this. Same with Ricks. </div>
[QUOTE]Oh I totally forgot...Andy...did you email me on my wedding website the other week? <strong>Because someone sent me a pretty nasty message and it was under your screenname.</strong> As if you would just admit it. I don't even know why I'm bothering.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]
Oh goodness.
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[QUOTE]Oh I totally forgot...Andy...did you email me on my wedding website the other week? Because someone sent me a pretty nasty message and it was under your screenname. As if you would just admit it. I don't even know why I'm bothering.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]
Omg I did not do that! I had some weird ones too before and figured it was Healey but they were from different screen names. Don't worry I have no beef with you and wouldn't post it on your wedding website if I did.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Wasn't that the UnDis thing? Or am I mixing my E-sagas?
Posted by alixzafiris[/QUOTE]
Yeah, it was the UnDis thing. That was back when I first joined and was trying to be funny/snarky and totally failed. Then E showed up and went nuts on the woman for having HIV and having a child, and still wanting to have more.
[QUOTE]I'm also going to say that NO ONE here felt bad for Kiki when she admitted she knew she had depression and was struggling with getting help. Most just got meaner.
Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]
This times a bazillion.
Yes it was on SB - but she comes over here a lot too. http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_je-suis-bored-poll
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[QUOTE]I agree about the snowflake thing. I've noticed heels has changed lately. She's very unpredictable in her posting tones and what not around here lately. I am trying to keep up, but I can't. She's nice to me though, so I suppose I shouldn't biitch. MrsE used to be like that though - hot and cold, just sayin'.
Posted by mandysmear[/QUOTE]
Haha fair enough. <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-wink.gif" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" /> I promise I won't tell you to abort your unborn babes, and I will never blackmail you, Mandy. Even though I know what you did last summer . ::raises eyebrow::
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