Well, just to sum this up very quickly.. I am surrounded by 3 weddings. My sister's, one of my close friends and mine. We have in common mothers that are not supportive of our weddings.. They never ask or show interest in the planning. My sister even said to me that our mom asked why she is planning to even change her last name? and that she should remain with her maiden. I find that such a wierd thing to say to your daughter when, in a week she's getting married!?My mother never asks me how I'm doing, never asked to see my dress, flowers or even when I sent the venue to her in an email, her only reply was 'nice and classy'. That was it.Our parents even stepped back and are only helping financially, at a min. My sister's fiance's family stepped up to the plate for them, which was very nice of them. And well, my fiance and I are paying for most of it. Whatever my parents are spending on my sister's wedding, they plan to do the same amount (not to sound ungrateful, because anything HELPS, but I feel that I'm back to being that younger daughter getting the hammy downs)... My mother even plans to wear the same IVORY outfit she plans to wear at my sisters wedding, for mine!! (I'm wearing an ivory dress!!!). The only thing that my mother enjoys talking about, is if HER outfit will look nice.My friend is trying to get her mom more involved but she's crushed at the lack of support. What is going on with these moms?!?!They are all good men in our lives, I just don't understand the lack of support. I feel so alone....