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VENT - BM drama

csartinicsartini
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I'll spare you the details.... They are all being one or more of the other of the following: uncooperative selfish bitchy clueless just overall dumb Why can't everyone just get along??? I'm not asking them to be best friends with each other, but they could at least try to get along and not B**ch to me when someone says/does something that they don't like. Why would a friend talk trash about someone else who is obviously also one of my very good friends. With the wedding 2 weeks away what I need right now is for everyone to grow the F*** up! There... Rant over
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  • TygirljojoTygirljojo
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    edited December 2011
    But...I'm a girl.  I like details.    Sorry you've gotta deal with all that.  Maybe you need to draft a generic letter and address each one to each BM separately and send it off.  Shame.  I can see maybe two BMs not getting along, but for all of them to be...um...well, whatever each is, is a shame.
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  • csartinicsartini
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks Jolene, Really there are so many details I would be here all night writing them out. I guess I'm just the type of person who gets along with everyone and all of my BMs are from different areas of my life. the other night I had two phone calls where two of them thought that the other was mad at them. Seriously!? Are we in junior high here? I think that with all of the indirect contact of facebook and text messaging, people are forgetting how to TALK to each other. it is just really sad to me.
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  • TygirljojoTygirljojo
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    edited December 2011
    Ha!  Funny thing about one thinking the other hates them - that's how my MOH and I were when we first met.  I was REALLY hungover and NOT feeling good and my MOH thought I hated her and she didn't really talk to me at all nor smile much, so I thought she hated me.  And here we are. :P    I suggest taking a deep breath and then just emailing everyone each other's phone numbers and tell them you would love for them to feel comfortable discuss anything they might wish to prior to the wedding so they get to know each other.  As for the two, I would simply tell each, "Well, you know what's actually really funny about you thinking XX hates you...she thinks you hate her.  I think you two should talk." Just make sure you tell them to talk to each other AFTER you've told both of them that.  Might make them realize they're reading too much into things.  Just remember: almost there!  Can you MOH help alleviate any of the issues with the BMs?
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  • HandKFOREVERHandKFOREVER member
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    edited December 2011
    All??? or implying most but can't just name a few??? and for all those wondering ... details may be interesting but trust me  we dont need to stress my girl out anymore ! Love... only 10 days to go... remember call me if you need anything!!! oh, and the bach. party was AMAZING drama or not! Can we play the camping game again soon??? lol
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