My wedding is not until aug/sept 2010. We don't have any family here, they are all in the midwest. My mom comes to visit every October. Will this year October be too early? I am thinking it would be great for my mom to have some actual part of the wedding planning with me, but I don't want to be an eager beaver. I visit home once at Christmas and in the spring, but next year I will visit in July and not the spring. Any suggestions?