Hello Ladies - this is my first post, and never in a million years did I think it would be about something like this! It's a little complicated, but here's the back story:
We're from a small town, and everyone knows everyone else. One of our invited guests has a younger brother that used to be good friends with one of our groomsmen. The the groomsmen's wife left him for the younger brother of the guest invited to the wedding. The older brother, who is invited to the wedding, RSVP'd that his brother and his girlfriend (the ex-wife of our groomsman) may be coming to the wedding with him. I think this is inappropriate and unfair to our groomsman, but how would you tactfully tell them this? We don't want to hurt anyone's feelings or make a big deal out of it, and I appreciate any suggestions on how to handle this. Thanks in advance for your advice!