Wedding Woes

It's been a rough few days...

First of all, I know I've told y'all about my friend A. She's going through chemo right now for metastatic breast cancer. She was diagnosed initially when we were about 22 and she went through treatment. It came back and she was diagnosed a second time last November. She's been on chemo since February and she is part of an experimental trial. The past couple months her white blood cell count has been low. She's been receiving treatment intermittently because of this. Last Friday (not this past one, but the one before), her counts were high enough to receive treatment. She then went into the Dr. last Weds., and they decided to do a treatment then as well. So after months of not doing consistent treatment, they blast her twice in 5 days. Her family has an annual party every summer and it took place this past Saturday. DH and I went. A looked horrible. She was tired, her skin was broken out, she was running a fever off and on, she had a pretty consistent nosebleed, she complained of her joints and bones aching. Her mom and I at one point were massaging her hands. DH and I had a few to drink, so we took a cab home. The next morning, we went back to get our car. A was not awake. Her sister told us that she woke up at 6am crying because she was in so much pain and could not sleep. Her mom went in and gave her some medicine and massaged her until she fell asleep. We didn't see A at all. After we left, I sent her a text telling her we stopped by and to call me when she was feeling better. I didn't hear from her yesterday, so last night I texted her again just letting her know I was thinking of her. I told her that she didn't need to call or text until she felt like it. She texted me back right away and said that she was in the hospital. She ran a pretty high fever and couldn't shake it, so the admitted her. It turned out her white cell count is close to zero. So...::sigh:: She said she's supposed to get out today, but I don't know. Say a little prayer for her, would you? Second of all, DH and I have hit a really rough patch.  I don't want to get into all of it, but the past week has just been really bad.  Third, my good friend had to put her poor sweet less-than-a-year old Lab mix down because he had a tumor next to his heart that was crushing his windpipe.  They said he had a matter of days.  They offered her to go to Purdue Univ., but they didn't know if he'd even make it there.  They initially thought it was pneumonia.  Poor darling Linus...They buried him at her DH's uncle's farm.  She's crushed...Absolutely devastated.  :(Fourth, my dryer is not working.  I tried to start it this morning and it made a horrible noise and then I smelled a burning smell...I turned it off, unplugged it, and turned off the circuit as well.  DH has a friend that can probably fix it.  Let's hope we don't need a new dryer. ::sigh:::  Thanks for reading.

Re: It's been a rough few days...

  • **Stinky!****Stinky!** member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh man, I'm so sorry. Hang in there.
  • LnR70707LnR70707 member
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    :(I am sorry.  Your friend will be in my prayers.  I hope everything gets better soon.{{hugs}}
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  • ~~Busy.~~~~Busy.~~ member
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    edited December 2011
    *done*As for your rough patch, I have a suggestion.  Yes it's a simple one but how about you just sex him up when you get home?  The hormones released may put you both in a better mood and it sex does have a bonding effect.Just a thought.
  • tawillerstawillers member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh man.  ((Hugs)) I'm keeping A in my thoughts.
  • edited December 2011
    ::hugs:: I'm so sorry. I can bring you a mangorita on my lunch break if you need : /
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  • hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    edited December 2011
    oh, lady.  i'm so sorry to hear all of this.
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  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    ::vibes, hugs, liquor, smiles, prayers::
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  • MizBiscuitMizBiscuit member
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    edited December 2011
    {{hugs}}
    "Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: "What! You too? I thought I was the only one." ~C.S. Lewis
  • VarunaTTVarunaTT member
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    edited December 2011
    {{{{{hugs}}}}}Sounds like you both have a lot going on right now.As far as the rough patch, just keep it in your mind that it's a PATCH.  This is not the whole quilt.  Remember the good stuff, try not to say anything that can't be taken back, and work through it.
  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks ladies.  I stayed home yesterday because I didn't sleep at all on Sunday night and I looked and felt like isht.  I was pretty emotionally drained.  I slept most the morning and then got up and did some stuff around the house.  I knew I had made the right decision when I was grocery shopping yesterday afternoon and almost started crying in the middle of the store.  Yep, definitely needed that mental health day.
  • alikatt17alikatt17 member
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    edited December 2011
    ::big hugs::
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  • jojobrnjojobrn member
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    *lots of hugs*My thoughts are on you, your friends and your dryer. Hopefully everyone and everything will be looking up here soon.
  • edited December 2011
    ::big hugs:: I'm sorry all of this is happening right now. I hope that things look up soon.
  • PMeg819PMeg819 member
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    edited December 2011
    ::hugs::
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