We have a friend that is going to be helping us out with a lot of misc. items for the wedding. She wasn't asked to be a bm b/c at the time we asked people I didn't feel like her and I were as close. We have been friends for years but our communications were fairly sparatic up until the past year or so. I love her to death and wanted her to be a part of the big day, so we asked her if she would want to do things (such as handing out programs/bubbles to the guests as they arrive for the ceremony) and she was really excited to help out anyway she could. We also have her doing a handful of misc. items at the reception.I'm starting to work on the design for our programs and I don't know what to call her, if that makes sense. I obviously can't call her a bm b/c she really isn't one, but I don't want to just label her as the person who hands out the programs. It feels restricting and wrong to me for some weird reason. I did some research and it seems like most people in the same situation call this person an honorary bm, personal attendant, or something of the like.I want to give her recognition for all of the hard work she will be doing. I feel like honorary bm sounds as if she can't be with us for whatever reason. I feel like personal attendant sounds like she is my slave. FI thinks I should ask her which one she would prefer, but I know she will tell me not to worry about it b/c she is so selfless. What do you think we should list her "position" as? Any ideas are welcome! Thanks girls!