So I really didn't want to do seating arrangements, for a few reasons, first it's a whole headache and mad dash I'd like to avoid, and second I kind of think it's pointless. I don't beleieve people should have to be told where to eat and who to sit by, but that is just my opinion. Dinner is such a small part of the reception, and I never sit in my seat very long, no matter who's reception. My question is, can people really handle no seating arrangement? The few people we have told about not having one seem to raise their eyebrows, and both our moms think it's necessary. But their is no bad blood in either side of our families, and I can't think of situation where any two people wouldn't be able to handle being next to each other. We are planning to reserve family tables close to us, but I never wanted to tell people where they had to sit all night I am pretty confident the heavens won't erupt, but anyone else not do assigned seating? Does anyone ever really miind not having one at a reception, because I am open to suggestion