So through facebook, I got a sneaking suspicion that an old friend Sharon's younger brother (that I don't know well at all, and haven't seen since I was in high school a decade ago...and even then, we weren't even friends!) was coming to my wedding. Why? Because he posted "going up to [wedding location] for a wedding this weekend!"I know it was possible that he was going to that same city for someone else's wedding, but unlikely. So I call my friend Sharon, hoping to shed some light on this. "Sharon, I'm just calling to find out who, exactly, from your family will be attending my wedding on Saturday.""Oh," she says, "my and my brother Bobby." "Oh, really? I'm a little confused because I never got an RSVP from Bobby [BECAUSE HE WAS'T INVITED!!!!!]."Sharon says, "Oh, he knows he isn't invited. He was planning to come to the reception but not eat anything."WHAT?!?!?! So the kid a) knows he isn't invited b) is coming anyway and c) doesn't bother informing ANYONE about this?!Also, it didn't occur to Sharon that this is a HUGE faux pas? It's not like she's bringing her brother as a date. She's bringing her BOYFRIEND as a date. Seems that her brother just decided it woudl be fun to tag along, and that as long as he didn't sit down and eat dinner, he wouldn't be bothering anyone.