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  • Mariah&StevenMariah&Steven
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    edited December 2011
    Lastly - in past relationships I did not like the idea of my SO going out to bars without me, but with my DH, the thought doesn't bother me much (although he doesn't go). The reason is because not once in the time I have known my DH have I ever been able to imagine him acting inappropriately or in a manner that would upset me. With my ex's, I could imagine it. Therein lies the difference. Jennifer, I know exactly what you mean.  My ex, I would worry if he went out without me because I knew he had a wandering eye.  With Steve I have no doubts in my mind that if he went to a bar, I'd have nothing to worry about.
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  • Jefrina79Jefrina79 member
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    edited December 2011
    Exactly Mariah. If I thought DH would get stupid drunk and act a fool then yeah I would be upset at the thought of him going. But - if I thought he would act that way when "unsupervised" - I probably would not have married him either! I spent 7 yrs in a relationship where I felt like the mother/chaperone/baby-sitter. I will never do that again.
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