Today, NotFroofy and I were talking about who we would like to have do the ha-motzi (which will be in the sukkah after the ceremony). There will only be about 15 guests at the ceremony, and many of them are already doing something (a reading, one of the Shevah Berakot, photography, videography, or running the CD of the ceremony music). We finally agreed that the best person to do the ha-motzi would be my ex-husband and his sister.NotFroofy is pretty sure, however, that we will be one of the few weddings this year in which there will be an announcement that, "The ha-motzi will be given by the ex-husband of one of the brides."