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MOH Crisis...PLEASE HELP!

prettie.eldieprettie.eldie member
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in Texas-Dallas and Ft. Worth
Okay girls, I need some help/advice.I had chosen a friend of mine to be my maid of honor but now regreting it cause we arent even that close...she was there when me && my FH met but we really arent best friends per say.I haven't told her but plan on telling her...but dont want to sound rude. I just dont want to look at my wedding album 10 years from now && know that I dont talk to her anymore. I have 3 sisters && having only them as bridesmaids, but havent decided on a maid of honor. What should I do? How do I tell her?
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Re: MOH Crisis...PLEASE HELP!

  • BalletBride620BalletBride620
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    edited December 2011
    Have you already asked her to be your MOH? If so, you can't un-ask her. Sorry I am confused. It looks like you chose her, but haven't asked her.. is that right?
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  • cherrrylllcherrrylll
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    edited December 2011
    If you don't talk to her, how did she end up as your MOH? I think it's rude to ask someone to be that and then tell them nevermind unless you had an actual falling out. Just my opinion.
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  • prettie.eldieprettie.eldie member
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    edited December 2011
    When he asked me to marry him, I told her && asked her to be the maid of honor... I already asked her but how can I un-ask her?I know its confusing, im sorry... I just dont want to continue her thinking that I still want her as my maid of honor.
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  • Mariah&StevenMariah&Steven
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    edited December 2011
    You can't unask her.  It's extremely rude.  You made this decision.  If you've already asked her to be your MOH and she's accepted, there's really nothing you can do.  Unless you want to end the friendship entirely.  If that's the case, then do what you want.
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  • wagnerj3wagnerj3
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    edited December 2011
    yeah I agree, I am not sure that you can unask someone. What you could do is just have everyone be bridesmaids and not have her as your MOH.  You can just say that feelings were hurt so everyone is a BM.  That way she won't be the one standing next to you while you are getting married? but if you do want to end the friendship, this is a clear and easy way to do it for sure.

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  • almoyoalmoyo member
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    edited December 2011
    It's never okay to use the ampersand symbol twice in a row. && = and and& = andUnless you speak that way, then just go ahead and type the words and and so that we know that that's really what you mean.
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  • prettie.eldieprettie.eldie member
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    edited December 2011
    I may just have everyone as bridesmaids. Its best. Dont really want to end friendship like that [for that particular reason] && dont want to hurt anyones feelings either. Thanks
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  • cherrrylllcherrrylll
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    edited December 2011
    LOL Almoyo.
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  • prettie.eldieprettie.eldie member
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    edited December 2011
    I just type that way && everyone I know has started using it that way also...It doesnt necessarily mean [and and], its just using the symbol twice.=).
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  • Mariah&StevenMariah&Steven
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    edited December 2011
    && And it's done again.
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  • Mariah&StevenMariah&Steven
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    edited December 2011
    Do you just like the && looks?  I mean, what's the point? I'm just curious.
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  • cherrrylllcherrrylll
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    edited December 2011
    Oooweee, that's going to drive me crazy. I keep reading it as "and and", I can't help it. No biggie though, I drive people crazy with my occasional disregard for capitalization.
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  • prettie.eldieprettie.eldie member
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    edited December 2011
    Dont know what the deal is w/the [&&]. Didnt think it was that important to bring up....but okay.Yea, I just like how it looks.=).
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  • almoyoalmoyo member
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    edited December 2011
    I think that's how the kids are typing these days.
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  • Mariah&StevenMariah&Steven
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    edited December 2011
    OMG Allison, that last post and your new sig pic just confirms you're an OMH.  Love it :)
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  • almoyoalmoyo member
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    edited December 2011
    Yeah. I'm really settling into hagdom comfortably. :)
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  • prettie.eldieprettie.eldie member
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    edited December 2011
    I always text && email using the symbol twice.No one has ever read it as a [and and].Nor have they brought it to an attention.
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  • BanannaPBanannaP member
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    edited December 2011
    Crazy kids and their excessive use of ampersands, what's next? Multiple commas,, or something?
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  • Mariah&StevenMariah&Steven
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    edited December 2011
    Now I want to change my SN to "Mariah&&Steven". I'm cool.  I'm hip.
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  • almoyoalmoyo member
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    edited December 2011
    No, Mariah. We are not cool nor are we hip. We are married. We can't go out without our husbands, we can't drink too much, we should really just be nursing babies and cooking dinner...
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  • prettie.eldieprettie.eldie member
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    edited December 2011
    iDK what the kids are using these days... I am an adult && as far as I know, no ones ever had a problem w/the [&&]. But you know what  BanannaP,, i might just start using the double comma.Looks great huh!LoL.=).
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  • BanannaPBanannaP member
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    edited December 2011
    Barefoot, almoyo. Barefoot && pregnant is your only option.
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  • Mariah&StevenMariah&Steven
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    edited December 2011
    Well crap! There goes my plans for the weekend....on a funny note, check out todays updates on STFU Parents.  I was rolling:http://stfuparents.tumblr.com/
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  • Mariah&StevenMariah&Steven
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    edited December 2011
    I just type that way && everyone I know has started using it that way also...Innocent question, here.  But have you ever thought that maybe they were doing that becuase they were making fun of you?  I mean, really?
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  • mandasue178mandasue178 member
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    edited December 2011
    OMG I just read this and I'm sad I missed it happening. I'm sorry but && is more ridiculous than just about anything I've seen on here. I would make fun of my friends to their faces for that.
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  • juliebug1997juliebug1997 member
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    edited December 2011
    I only read the first couple of posts and didn't make it all the way through the great double "&" of the day.  Sometimes, I think I spend too much time here when I read some of the dumbness (I'm trying to be nice) that goes on here.
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  • appletango85appletango85 member
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    edited December 2011
    Mariah that is DISGUSTING!! PMGO indeed! I so saw a post where instead of ..... the poster used ,,,,, I couldn't get through the whole thing lolI tick people off all teh time with my lack of capitalization and my lol's and let me tell you.....&& is worse >:)It reminds me of a child trying to tell you a story and they are so excited that they say 'and' like 7 times in a row LOL! That's how I was reading the posts. Like a child trying to tell a storyOh and to answer you question, no you can not unask anyone to be a BM or MoH. It is extremely rude and definitely a potential friendship ender. You're stuck.
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  • nae82nae82
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    edited December 2011
    This is hardly a "crisis" You chose her, you can't un-choose her, unless you are willing to end the friendship completely. AND I agree that && is rediculous. Isn't typing out the word easier? I don't see the point.
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  • almoyoalmoyo member
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    edited December 2011
    Nae, you don't see the point because you aren't cool.
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  • nae82nae82
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    edited December 2011
    ah.. ok.. well I'm completely fine with that! lol
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