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Dress Poll

So I think I may have found my dress. The issue is, that I didn't have that feeling like its "THE ONE". I think i'm pretty ok with that, considering I had that moment with my FI, I feel as if I could wear anything down the aisle and it wouldn't matter. 

How many of you didn't have that feeling?


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Re: Dress Poll

  • I did have the feeling.  Tears and everything.  The booze I was drinking all day in order to put up with my mother may have been a contributing factor though.
  • I didn't have that feeling either. I think the idea of getting "the One" feeling is over-hyped, so don't worry if you don't get it. I chose the dress that I did because it was on my mind for days, so I figured that was a good enough reason to buy it. I honestly feel that there were many dresses that I would have felt/looked great in, but I got mine because it was in the first batch that I tried on.
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  • I did not have the feeling. My dress is the first one that I tried on and I tried on about 50 dresses after that one and none of the others looked as good on me as that first one did. So that's the one I got. I feel really beautiful in it, but I didn't get all emo or anything.
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  • I had the feeling but it took a little while. I had my heart set on a certain dress, then tried it on and felt very meh. Then I tried on my dress and was excited, but not "omg its the one I'm going to cry" but I kept it in the dressing room while I tried on more. Then I slipped it on after the day was over and walked out again, put on the veil, and looked at dad. That's when I had the "omg I'm getting married" and decided it was "the one". True to fashion, it was also 50% off :)
  • I'm going to be lurking on this one.  I went dress shopping last weekend and I didn't have a "the one" moment either (though my mom did, several, actually Wink).  But there is one dress I think might be the one I want.  So I'm interested!
  • I didn't with the dress, but sorta with my shoes.  I'm not a terribly sentimental or emotional person though, so that probably contributed.  I liked the dress and I found one for cheap, so I got it.  I would probably be happy in most any dress that met some broad criteria.

    I think the feeling of a dress being "the one" is a creation of the bridal industry to make brides think they HAVE to have a certain dress, no matter the cost.
  • I felt A feeling, but I didn't go into hysterics and cry and screech like they do on TV.

    I just felt good and kind of warm and fuzzy, and I didn't giveashiit what anyone else thought of it.  Every other dress I tried on I asked for 10 million opinions on.  This one I bought without a single family member or friend or internet stranger seeing it--just me and the saleslady.
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  • Nope.  No "magically knowing it was the one" for me.

    It was beautiful, the silhouette fit like it was made for me, it's the first time in ages that I thought I actually looked pretty, and the price was certainly right.
  • I chose a flattering dress but it was more elimination than revelation. 
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  • For the record, I didn't screech when I got my feeling. 
  • No feeling.  The dress was also the least important thing to me (I loathe dresses), so I basically just picked the first one that didn't look horrible.
  • No tears or angels singing. Just the one that I looked best in.
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  • I knew it was the one, I tried it on first and loved it and then tried on like 8 others and when I tried the first one on again I started crying and I just had to have it. Im an emotional wretch though.
  • I didn't have the OMG feeling. I was pretty happy and when the saleslady asked me to try on the next, I didn't really feel like taking it off, so I decided to buy it. But I didn't see stars or anything.
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  • No certain feeling, I just loved it. It was off the beaten path--and I knew it was more "me" than anything else I had put on.

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  • I knew it was the dress but I didn't cry.  I just kept staring at myself while telling my mom "I'm the prettiest bride in the woooorld"
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  • I didn't have "the feeling" but I was like, Yep! This is it!
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  • Roxy, I had to make a new SN, the new knot didn't like the ampersand in my old name.  Hopefully I'll be able to use it again some day, but I lost about 5,000 posts on that SN too.  Oh well.  Sucks, but not the end of the world.
  • I knew it was the dress and I teared up.  No squealing though.
  • i picked the first dress that made me smile
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  • Sort of, I guess. I knew my dress was The One when I saw it online. When I tried it on, I just got happy. I'm not a cryer, so there were no tears, just galloping around in MY dress. :)
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  • I didn't have the feeling for the dress I originally purchased which I didn't end up receiving, but I did when I found the gown I ended up wearing. Not with tears etc, but just a sense of relief- particularly when random shoppers saw me and commented on how perfect it was.
  • I didn't have a big mushy omg I'm a Bride!!11!! moment either. I found my dress- it fit great, looked great, and was a great deal, and that was that. 
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  • I did.  No craziness, but I teared up.  I'm really sappy, though.
  • Smilar to others, it was the one that I couldn't find anything I didn't like about it, the one I didn't want to change in any way--whereas all the previous dresses and been " I like this, but...". I wasn't crying/getting chills, but the more I had it on, the more I liked it.
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  • I didn't get sappy, but when I put it on, I knew that was the one I was going to purchase.
  • I didn't have the OMG moment either. The whole day I tried on dresses that looked good - but not on me. Then I tried on one that looked good on and was comfortable and went for it. My FMIL and MOH cried though, if that counts.
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