so my sister, who is one of our bridemaids informed me a few weeks ago that she would be pregnant at my wedding. she is not currently prego, but they want to start trying around sept. and wedding is in may. i have no issue with this, I can't wait for a new niece or newphew, I always think pregnant women in bridal parties are a great way to remember the other wonderful events that come in a couple's life. My issue is that she then informed me that I would have to pick an empire waisted bridesmaid dress, for everyone, to best flatter her baby bump. The BM dresses I like aren't empire waisted, and I have looked alot...I just kind of feel like she's out of line....She wouldn't say that to a friend, and now I feel bad cause she's not going to get what she wants, but at the same what about what we want? and I don't think the only dress that would look good on a prego is an empire, I think they could be beautiful in anything, it just might take some alterations:) What would you do?