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Facebook firing after 'friend' boss ripped SUPPLIED PICTURE Woman let go after rant: 'I guess you forgot about adding me on here?' Aug 15, 2009 04:30 AM  Cathal Kelly Feature Writer In tech terms, it's called a cascading failure. A woman in Britain being called "Lindsay" made a big one this week, and it cost her her job. First, she came home after a hard day and, rather than complaining to the cat, decided to do it on the web. Lindsay opened up her Facebook account and posted a fairly vulgar description of her boss. "OMG, I HATE MY JOB!" Lindsay wrote. "My boss is a total pervvy wanker always making me do s--- stuff." Mistake No. 2. Mistake No. 3. was forgetting that her boss was one of her Facebook friends, and thus had access to all of her posted comments. Mistake No. 4 was firing this broadside two weeks before the end of a six-month trial period. Five hours after Lindsay posted her lament, her boss replied. "I guess you forgot about adding me on here?" his post began. Then he proceeded to rip her straight back. "That `s--- stuff' is called your `job', you know, what I pay you to do? But the fact that you seem able to f--- up the simplest of tasks might contribute to how you feel about it." Angry boss then points out that Lindsay is a couple of weeks shy of the end of her trial period and delivers the coup de grâce. "Don't bother coming in tomorrow. I'll pop your P45 (pink slip) in the post, and you can come in whenever you like to pick up any stuff you've left here. And, yes, I'm serious." The Schadenfreude moment appears to be genuine. A screen capture of the exchange – with names blacked out – has been circulating the web for several days. "It is pretty hysterical," said labour lawyer Mary Beth Currie. "Well, not for her." According to Currie, the sort of treatment Lindsay received at her boss's hands could also happen in Canada. "Yes, a termination would be possible," Currie said. "People have to realize that they can't disparage their employer after working hours like this." It is now normal practice in this country to include a paragraph addressing what can and can't be done on social networking sites into the section of employee agreements covering Internet policy. "This is not unusual," said Peter Biro, a partner at WeirFoulds LLP. "You're going to see kajillions of cases like this out there." This is the latest in a series of headline-grabbing stories of irked employees typing and living to regret it. From a Swiss insurance worker chopped for Facebooking while home ill, to a Brit public relations drone axed for complaining about being "bored" in her work, people are learning the hard way that bad moods are temporary, but the Internet is forever. Nor would it be the first time someone's been cut via a social networking site. B.C. aesthetician Crystal Bell made headlines in January after she was fired over Facebook, though not for anything she had written online. In Lindsay's case, the lesson is clear. Choose your (Facebook) friends wisely.
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  • loveshine1loveshine1 member
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    Why would you friend your boss on FB? I haven't friended mine, although she shows up in my 'people you may know' feed.Dumb.
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  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    or....make status updates wisely?
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    Wow. I'm friends with my boss' kid. Mostly because bosslady wants me to help her daughter out school wise (she is in a similar situation that I was in when I was looking at colleges and is looking at similar programs I was). I make sure never to comment about work unless it's beneficial to the organization.
  • VarunaTTVarunaTT member
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    Seriously, it's like people have lost their damn minds, thinking everyone should want to know every single thing about their life.You know who you complain about your boss to?  Your spouse.  That should be it.  Other people have big mouths, you should be able to trust them to not spread it around.  This has just narrowed gossip circles.
  • VarunaTTVarunaTT member
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    I should also note, I fail about the complaining thing HERE, but I'm pretty sure none of y'all ever figured out where I worked/who my bosses were.It sure as hell wouldn't be on FB.
  • baconsmombaconsmom member
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    And what do I find on FB today? One of my friends complaining about his boss. I only complain about clients - they don't even know my name, let alone friend me on FB.
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  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    You should respond to those people with links to this article, BM.
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  • baconsmombaconsmom member
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    And I should add, I complain about clients to my boss. Generally, we hate the same people.
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