i go on my first wedding dress shopping trip next week : ) so far i've been researching dresses and i have 2 particular ones in mind that i really like but who knows till i try it on. i was wondering if you ladies ended up with the dress you thought you were going to get?
Re: did you end up with the dress you thought you would?
I went in with pictures of my must tries. Didn't like any of them. Fell in love with the second one I tried.
I went in knowing I would get something with sleeves, and something ivory.
Well it's strapless and white! But, I am in LOVE! : )
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Sort of. I knew I wanted strapless and something not too plain, but not overly ornate. I knew I wanted something from one of two designers. I thought I'd want a lace A-line dress with a colored sash by 1 designer, or a mermaid from the other designer. Ended up with strapless A-line, but no lace and no colored sash.
I just didn't like mermaid dresses on me when I tried them on. They made me feel a bit hippy.
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All I really knew going in was that i didn't want a ball gown, and that I would more than likely be a Maggie or Sottero & midgely bride. i was right on both counts- there was an s&m dress (silver!) that I loved, it has a fitted silhouette, that I honestly thought was it. It was elegant, and had a small train. Then I went shopping with my mom and fMIL, and the consultant picked my dress from the rack. I never would've picked it myself. A-line, ivory and a pretty long train, but there wasn't any question in my mind.
I ended up with a very simple and fairly plain dress with a sweethear neckline, and some beading at the waist line. The most beautiful part of the dress that I fell in love with was the skirt and train. It's a straight A line with lace over it. The satin skirt is striaght to the floor and doesn't extend under my train. So the chapel length train is all lace and beading. I love it. It's light and looks beautiful bustled. I did second guess myself for a while, but I just went for my fitting, and fell in love with it again - so did everyon there!
I started trying out non-strapless dresses, but there are so few of them, I decided to try strapless just to see. And I loved it! Now I know why most people love it! It took me a while, but I found my perfect dress. And it was completely opposite of what I thought I wanted. I hope I still love it when it comes in in about 2 weeks!!!
i was seriously disappointed at DB, so i went to PREVUE. a smaller dress shop. that place was crazy! filled with tons of teenage girls looking for their winter formal dresses. i thought there was no way i'd survive that! i explained my dream dress in detail to the sales associate. she brought me dresses very close to the one stuck in my head. VERY CLOSE. but no, i wasnt going to settle. then that beautiful little angel did it. in the sea of white, she found MY DRESS! i put the 3 sizes too small dress on and knew it was the one. exactly what was in my head, was now on my body. just too tight, so i ordered mine and now we'll live happily ever after. my man and me, not my dress
I had more ideas about what I didn't want than what I did want. White. NO strapless. No big poofiness or too long of a train. Not too much bling. An old classmate of mine owns a bridal boutique (and offered me the friends/family discount), so I went there first. One Saturday, I tried on a bunch of dresses, and she helped me narrow it down to four very different dresses that still mostly fit all my preferences. I was leaning towards one particular dress that fit all the above criteria and happened to be "off the rack," so the price was definitely right. One of the four dresses we included more for fun than because I thought I'd actually buy it. The next Saturday, my mom, sis-in-law (MOH) and a friend came back with me and I tried all four on a couple times for them. My MOH took a few pics of me in each gown, and I ended up buying the one I had only included in the line-up for fun! SEEING MYSELF IN THE PHOTOS IS WHAT DID IT, so I definitely recommend that if the shop allows it. It's ivory instead of white, has a small train, rouching (sp?), and spaghetti straps with a v-neck and minimal beading. I love it and can't wait to wear it for my FI! :-)
So, if the associate pulls other styles definitely put them on and try on different looks, you'll be pleasantly suprised!
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No, I didn't end up with what I had originally envisioned. I was looking for simple without too much beading or lace. I didn't want a ball gown or to look like an over-frosted cupcake. I ended up going to 2 different shops on different weekends. The first place I was pretty sure I found what I was looking for but I allowed my friends to drag me to the second shop the following weekend to try on some different designers.
I know many bridal shops don't condone it, but I highly recommend getting photos of yourself in the 1-2 dresses that you think you like. When I looked at myself in the photos from the first shop I had an immediate gut reaction of 'Hell No'. Same with the second shop. There were two dresses I really liked, both very different. After seeing how I looked in the photo of the simple chiffon dress I was sure I wanted vs. the simple, LARGE, ballgown...I picked the ballgown. I LOVE my dress! It has bee a real struggle not making additional appointments to go try it on.
It's everything I never wanted but it was perfect!!!
I had no idea what kind of dress I wanted, so I went in with no images of my dream dress. I tried on tons of dresses and ended up getting the absolute last one I tried on - and it's beautiful - more beaded than I thought, but very pretty. NOW, my dream dress would have been something by Vera or Monique, but that's just not in this bride's budget