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At what point do I start panicking?

My rsvp date is 8/26/09, and I've only received 19 out of 67 invites!

Re: At what point do I start panicking?

  • edited December 2011
    Panic?  Never. :) Start gathering phone numbers.  You's gon' have lotsa peeps to call!!!
  • edited December 2011
    My RSVP date has come and gone and I still haven't recieved a bunch of them
  • kelklumpkelklump member
    Ninth Anniversary 500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    On my rsvp final date (and the dates after) I received 25 RSVP's. Dont panic. I left myself plenty of time to call and email, which has wrapped up all but 5. I am seeing them this weekend and will be asking how many they are bringing.Good luck and never panic. That is what we are here for.
  • abbey&joshabbey&josh member
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Thanks girls.  Maybe when I get home today my mailbox will be overflowing with rsvps!  I'll let ya know on Monday! 
  • edited December 2011
    Yeah, def don't panic.  So many people just don't bother sending them or they forget.  I told myself when I got engaged I would never do that again b/c I would hate it if people did that to me.  And I still was late by two days to RSVP for FI's cousins wedding.  hehe  This is exactly why I gave myself so much time before the final head count was due.Hope that you get a bunch over the next few days!
  • edited December 2011
    My RSVP date is tomorrow and we still don't have some of ours. Got 2 more in today. FI and I planning on sitting down with the list and our cell phones on Sunday. :)
  • edited December 2011
    Take a deep breath and calm down.  A lot of people still think that the RSVP date is the date they have to put it in the mail, so you can't really start even beginning to think about freaking out until 2-3 days after your RSVP date (so next Saturday after your mail has been delivered).If you're the proactive type, you can start gathering phone numbers now, but I'd say there's a really good shot that you'll get quite a few of those RSVP's back in the next week.
  • edited December 2011
    I had only received half of ours a week before our due date.  I split up the list of people between my parents, his, and us depending upon whose friend or relative it is.  I also sent facebook messages to our friends to remind them I need to know if they are coming and that was a really easy way to get their information back fast. 
  • stosha1stosha1 member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I guess I'm lucky.It's only 1 week past our RSVP date and we have received ALL BUT 2 in the mail.But, don't panic! Just gather phone numbers.You have LOTS OF TIME!!!GL!
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