People WILL talk

mhogberg · March 2012

All I can think is how rude are these idiots, we are paying for them to have a free meal. No one twisted their arms and made them come. Who are THEY to judge US??? Noone has the right to judge anyone. PERIOD.

adamar15 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]All I can think is how rude are these idiots, we are paying for them to have a free meal. No one twisted their arms and made them come. Who are THEY to judge US??? <strong>Noone has the right to judge anyone.</strong> PERIOD.
Posted by mhogberg[/QUOTE]

If someone does something completely rude, I will judge the shiit out of them.

andrea2473 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]All I can think is how rude are these idiots, we are paying for them to have a free meal. No one twisted their arms and made them come. Who are THEY to judge US??? <strong>Noone has the right to judge anyone</strong>. PERIOD.
Posted by mhogberg[/QUOTE]

But they will and that's the point. And in this case, the free meal was cold so their dinner sucked.

sparent2010 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]All I can think is how rude are these idiots, we are paying for them to have a free meal. No one twisted their arms and made them come. Who are THEY to judge US??? Noone has the right to judge anyone. PERIOD.
Posted by mhogberg[/QUOTE]

I judge people all the time. Everyone judges someone else for one reason or another. Your reception is a thank you to "the idiots" you invited to your wedding. If you don't want to pay for their meal why would you invite them?

TR I fear this has turned into a "I did those things for my wedding and everyone was cool about it thread"

LP11509 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_people-will-talk?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:0da601b4-4b8b-44c1-ac9e-8d2bca43577ePost:1d6f6980-8a45-487f-b48f-49b935f18d11">Re: People WILL talk</a>:
[QUOTE]All I can think is how rude are these idiots, we are paying for them to have a free meal. No one twisted their arms and made them come. Who are THEY to judge US??? Noone has the right to judge anyone. PERIOD.
Posted by mhogberg[/QUOTE]

<div>So...judging people for being rude is off limits, but calling people idiots isn't. Got it. </div>

FutureMrsTR · March 2012

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[QUOTE]All I can think is how rude are these idiots, we are paying for them to have a free meal. No one twisted their arms and made them come. Who are THEY to judge US??? Noone has the right to judge anyone. PERIOD.
Posted by mhogberg[/QUOTE]

Thank you, work was getting dull and I needed a laugh :) Do tell us about your wedding.

andrea2473 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: People WILL talk : I judge people all the time. Everyone judges someone else for one reason or another. Your reception is a thank you to "the idiots" you invited to your wedding. If you don't want to pay for their meal why would you invite them? TR I fear this has turned into a "I did those things for my wedding and everyone was cool about it thread"
Posted by sparent2010[/QUOTE]

Eh, for me it's more of a "I did that for my wedding and everybody can F off if they didn't like it" thread. <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" />

I'm sorry, I have an emoticon problem today.

baystateapple · March 2012

I always laugh when someone says "I did this for my wedding and my guests didn't care." Do you really think that most people are going to tell you to your face that what you did was rude?

[Deleted User] · March 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: People WILL talk : Is this going to turn into a "but I did it and my guests didn't care thread?"
Posted by dnbeach12[/QUOTE]
lol

aragx6 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]All I can think is how rude are these idiots, we are paying for them to have a free meal. No one twisted their arms and made them come. Who are THEY to judge US??? Noone has the right to judge anyone. PERIOD.
Posted by mhogberg[/QUOTE]

I always wonder why people like you dont just elope. But then, I already know the answer: A desperate need for attention.

adamar15 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: People WILL talk : Who is Noone? Was this one of your guests?
Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]

He must be friends with the alot.

NuggetBrain · March 2012

Maaaaaaaaan I judged 6 people and a baby before I even got out of bed this morning. Judging is what I motherf*cking DO.

Habs2Hart · March 2012

The most talked about thing at our wedding was my friend in the short orange dress and no underwear. Yup... awesome.

annakb8 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: People WILL talk : Hell, that's part of the fun. I love getting together with people afterwards and shiit-talking. Who got ridiculously drunk/who snuck off with who/who said something inappropriate.
Posted by rachers1017[/QUOTE]

<div>Yes, this is absolutely the best part of weddings. Going to brunch the next day and talking shiit. </div>

[Deleted User] · March 2012

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[QUOTE]I love to talk shiit, so you can be sure that if someone does something judge-tastic at my wedding I will want to know about it.
Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]
We had a guest steal from another guest. H found out and told me about it. I really wish he hadn't, at least not until another day. I would have preferred not to have stressed out about that on our wedding day.

FutureMrsTR · March 2012

OMG people, I'm not saying you have to care that people will judge you, jut know that they will. Anyway. Another fun story, a FB friend of mine posted asking how people would feel about a Wednesday evening wedding. Because the venue she just has to have is booked for a long time for all weekend days. I might be overly annoyed bc she's also a STFU parents contender. You'd think she's the only mother ever to have to go back to work after having a baby. Maybe this can turn into an I Judge thread.

chumlee7478 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]The most talked about thing at our wedding was my friend in the short orange dress and no underwear. Yup... awesome.
Posted by Habs2Hart[/QUOTE]

The girl in our circle of friends that normally does stuff like that just sent in her regrets last night for our wedding. My brother and FI are devastated. According to them, her not coming just removed any trash talking after the wedding. My brother was looking forward to the "I can't believe she didn't wear underwear/wore white/danced on the table/puked in the bathroom/tried to get the bartender to serve shots" conversations afterwards.

Habs2Hart · March 2012

Well, the no underwear girl was followed closely behind by the person who broke her foot, the person who swam in the pool in her dress and the couple who were giving each other hand jobs on the patio at dinner. Apparently people had a good ol' time.

[Deleted User] · March 2012

Yeah, that sort of stuff is fun. There was a chick at H's cousin's wedding who wore a dress with a bubble hem that was about crotch-length. The thing looked like a diaper. She thought she was so cool and edgy, meanwhile everyone else at the wedding spent the whole time mocking her.

StephBeanWed61502 · March 2012

I once saw a guest at a wedding in a white mini-dress. I (and every other person at the wedding) can confirm she was wearing exactly zero undergarments. And also plastic stripper shoes. I don't even know the girl, and she's my favorite wedding guest ever.

LP11509 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: People WILL talk : I hate bubble hems. My little sister (14) picked a dress for the wedding out with one and I cringed a little. They're just not very flattering IMO, but whatevs. She likes it so it's all gravy.
Posted by rachers1017[/QUOTE]

<div>I adamantly did NOT want a bubble hem dress. The consultant pulled one that was gorgeous except that it had a bubble hem, and I didn't even want to try it on. But I did, and immediately fell in love with it and got it. But, I will agree that most short bubble hem dresses don't look right on most people. </div>

chumlee7478 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: People WILL talk : I hate bubble hems. My little sister (14) picked a dress for the wedding out with one and I cringed a little. They're just not very flattering IMO, but whatevs. She likes it so it's all gravy.
Posted by rachers1017[/QUOTE]

Bubble hems are the least flattering style ever. Why does someone want to look heavy on the bottom? I just don't get it. I asked my girls to pick out their own LBDs with 3 caveats: knee length, no tie halters (been to too many events where the tie lets go), and no bubble hems. I'm fairly certain no one was bummed that bubble hems were on the no go list.

[Deleted User] · March 2012

There was a girl with a bubble dress at my company's Chritmas party. It was super short and kept bouncing every time she walked, and you could about see all her goodies. Everyone at our table was taking bets on when we'd see ass or vag.

I haven't been to many weddings, so I've missed out on all this good stuff. The only slightly scandalous thing I've seen is people sneaking off to the corner or to the woods to get stoned at a friend's wedding.

LP11509 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: People WILL talk : I think on long dresses that's an entirely different story. Or even on short dresses if it's a very subtle bubble hem. I'm talking about the ones like Daff described that look like diapers. Almost like it's a short dress with pick-ups?
Posted by rachers1017[/QUOTE]

<div>Yeah, those are not flattering on ANYONE.</div>

josephwedding · March 2012

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[QUOTE]Steph, were they clear heels? I love Chris Rock.
Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]

<div>This just made me laugh so hard I cried... "There's no clear heels in biology!" </div><div>
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StephBeanWed61502 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]Steph, were they clear heels? I love Chris Rock.
Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]

The shoes were entirely clear except for the rhinestones. I'll let you imagine for yourself exactly how over-teased and bleached her hair was.

josephwedding · March 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: People WILL talk : Hahaha. How about the girl giving a lap dance: "'If I was you, I would diversify my portfolio ."
Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]

<div>I laugh so hard everytime I see this special. "I'll show you! I'll dance naked to the Motley Crüe records! I'm gonna change my name to Cina Buns!" </div><div>
</div><div>Side note, I have a friend who loves Ben & Jerry's ice cream & we nicknamed her after her favorite flavor, Cinnamon Buns. I silently chuckle to myself because everytime I hear someone call her that, the above quote pops in my head. </div>

josephwedding · March 2012

I don't know if FI has seen it or not either. Though I had FI in tears last night from Damn You, Autocorrect!

[Deleted User] · March 2012

H and I are getting iPhones soon. I'm tempted to turn his autocorrect on so he will send me awesomely inappropriate texts. But since it's his business phone, this may be a bad idea.

kate&cor2012 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]The most talked about thing at our wedding was my friend in the short orange dress and no underwear. Yup... awesome.
Posted by Habs2Hart[/QUOTE]

My friend got married in the fall and her friend, who was also wearing a short orange dress, was really hammered and not wearing panties. It was certainly the talk of the men and the bride noticed. She said (when all the girls were gathered away from the rest of the guests) "Oh, FYI everyone *Orange Dress Girls* snatch is out". Oh, was it ever.

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