So FI and I are at odds about the day of timeline. We are getting married at a ski resort and our photographer, who loves the resort, offered to shoot pictures of us snowboarding together on the morning of the wedding for free. We're not doing e-pics so we both thought this would be kinda awesome, plus we're big snowboarders (hence the wedding at the resort). I'm only planning on doing 1-2 runs first thing in the morning, being done by about 10-10:30 then heading straight to shower and get ready. Our ceremony starts at 4:30pm and we're getting ready a half-hour away so I figure this won't be any problem for me.Problem is FI. He needs to not only shower and get ready, but has taken it upon himself (with some family help) to set up the all the ceremony and reception decorations. He thinks it's silly to pay to have someone do it when he, the groomsmen and a few other helpers can "get it done in no time." I'm thinking this is crazy. We're also taking pictures of his family & WP and my family & WP (separate so we don't see each other) before the ceremony too, to leave us more time later. So my question is this: is he crazy? Do you think he'll have time for this? Maybe I'm thinking things will take longer than they will? I figured on taking his family pics by 3:30 at the latest and mine at 4:00 at the latest. Does that sound reasonable? Or is that even cutting it too close? Oh and btw, he thinks he'll be able to keep snowboarding for a few more runs after I leave because it doesn't take him as long to get ready. ??????