So, I'm a nerd because I really want to change the subject line to "From where is all the drama coming" so that it doesn't end in a preposition...ANYWAYInvites went out over the weekend and now drama is cropping up everywhere! I know a lot of it is unavoidable/unpredictable. My bridesmaid broke up with the best man a few days ago. Neither of them are very mature about that kind of stuff, so hopefully it will be ok. I'm not upset about this though, because things like this happen, and my wedding is the least of the problems here.What I am a little peeved about is one of FI's ex-girlfriends. She happens to be married to a guy that would not leave me alone for almost a year. I mean really, this guy didn't know that if I say I'm busy every time you ask me to do something and I "lose your number" or "break my phone" more than 3 times, I'm not interested. But, on to the point. FI and I decided not to invite them to the wedding (I feel pretty justified in this). It gets sticky, because my family is good friends with the other guy's parents. And they live in his parents' casita. We did invite the parents. (Not that most people will think it matters, but I was not invited to their wedding, while my parents were.) So the girl texts FMIL today and asks where her invite was and why she wasn't invited. FMIL hasn't responded yet (to my knowledge, FI is checking on this). She did tell FI that he was super rude not to invite them and that they need to be allowed to come. FI and I talked about it, and we are both agreed that we don't want them there. There are just so many things wrong with how this is being handled, and I'm worried about hurting feelings. Advice? Validation? Similar stories to make me feel better?